I have been a long time lurker and decided to register and start posting.
I am male, 33 years old, live in the Southeastern United States and married with two wonderful kids.
I have been reluctant to post here because I guess I am just intimidated with everything, but it seems like most posters are very helpful and open and that is exactly what I will need help with. I came across this site after looking for things to help put the spark back in my marriage and love life, and have been extremely curious ever since. I have a good marriage, but over the last 5 years my wife and I have been at opposite spectrum’s as far as being physical. She is very modest and shy, and I am the same way, but I want her to be open in the bedroom and to express herself. She never lets me know when she is “in the mood” and I was hoping that maybe pheromones could help.
So there you go, I would love to hear some suggestions.
Hiya - Welcome to Pherotalk. Glad you finally raised your head!
Don’t be put-off. Using and evaluating pheros is pretty straightforward once you get the hang of things. Have you read this thread? It contains all the basic info for effective use:
In the meantime, I would suggest TUTH and some of the bonding/mood lightening socials as a good place to start.
Instant Shine for fun and feelgood confidence
IH for increasing the closeness and intimate bonding between you
Neither of these contain none, which if your wife is shy/reticent, may intimidate her initially but as the social pheros take hold, you could make good use of TUTH for enhancing sex or Ammo for reminding her of the all-round worthwile/sexy guy she has.
Again, her modesty may mean the heavier status pheros like A314 may initially be too much but the light suave/status of IG could also help remind her of good fun qualities in your relationship?
Another lurker?!? Well, I’m glad that you grew out of that phase!
A formal welcome to you, sir!
That’s fine, many posters around here are looking for different effects using mones. In your case, it’s similar to what I use my mones… I’d suggest some IShine and IH to start with. As you are both on the shy side of things, IShine, I think, would get things a bit more fluid with IH helping in just opening her up to you in a deep way. It may take some time for the effects to be felt, as she has a built in view of who you are/should be… This new mone signature may need to be accepted by her. You do need to be a bit more ‘Shiney’, smiley, open with her to get behind the mone signal of these two products.
Though, if an issue is in the bedroom, you can try out TUTH to get things hot and heavy… after the comfort of IShine and IH have taken hold.
Hope things work out for you! Let us all know how it went to better guide you on the mones you apply!
To get the spark back in your marriage, definitely go with Instant Honesty and Turn Up The Heat.
Instant Honesty will help rekindle and strengthen the emotional bonds that are so important in a marriage, by helping to bring out deeper communications between you.
Turn Up The Heat will help spice things up in the bedroom. It will help with her arousal and she will respond much more willingly to you.
I would suggest using the Instant Honesty first, it will bring her to a place where she feels really comfortable with you again, this emotional connection is important for most ladies to feel sexual desire for their partners.
I hope this helps, and just ask if you have questions!
I am so glad you decided to introduce yourself and start getting out of your shell and I know that these pheromones will definitely start some spark in your relationship.
