Hey DJ,
I second the suggestion for Ammo and Instant Shine. They are great in combination or alone.
I think some of your desperation problem could be helped by wearing some A314. It’s a bit expensive, but really worth every cent when you realize that the bottle lasts for maybe 6 months. The effects are cumulative on both others and yourself. I think that with some game work and A314 you will have the confidence to be killer with the ladies. What’s better for them than dating a soon-to-be doctor with a confident attitude? Not much. The great thing about A314 is that it blends well with things like Ammo and Instant Shine.
Pheromones aren’t something that you would want to wear on your clothing. It won’t harm your clothing or anything, far from it, but the pheromones really work best when they are evaporating from your body heat. Popular application spots include your neck, wrists, behind the ears and hair.
There was actually a recent post about this here:
The individual pheromones can last for 2-4 hours for the sprays to around 8 hours for the A314 oil.
There is also a search function at the top right hand corner of the forum which is very helpful in case you have questions that you think might have been answered before.
One of the best ways to understand how pheromones work for you is to start a journal. Actually, start it now, before you get your pheromones. You want to try and get a baseline for how people react to your presence now and after you are wearing mones. Once you start wearing them, you will notice mostly subtle changes in the way people behave that will accumulate over time and it is easier to see this if you have written things down.
Best of luck!