Hi Hitech - Welcome to Pherotalk. 
How about telling us a bit more about yourself. This thread details what we need:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
That way, we can offer better advice for your particular situation and you earn yourself the GC.
In addition, you say you are shy but happy to talk once you have made contact - Well, pheros won’t solve that basic problem, you will still need to do a bit of work on your personality to overcome this shyness. Then the right pheros will help things along no-end and make meeting and getting to know women a lot easier.
This thread has all the basic info you will need for basic phero choice and effective use:
Note particualrly the Sweet Spot link - You will need to take a little time to find the best dose for any none-based product. We all differ here.
In the meantime, if you want to plunge-in and just start with pheros, I would Suggest Ammo and Instant Shine as the easiest to get to grips with. Ammo is a balanced social/sexy/masculine attraction formula that is difficult to go wrong with, whilst IS gives off a happy/feelgood vibe that makes you good to be around. Both can be used individually but together, they combine to make one of the best mixes out there!