Hi Tina!!! Welcome to the mone forum, PheroTalk!!! 
Great to have you aboard! You’ll be gettin’ along fine with the people on this forum. Have you gone over to the Women’s section? If not, take a look around and post up any specific questions you may have… you also may be able to answer some questions yourself!
Being a skeptic… comes with checking out mones. I was a bit leery and suspicious when I started out with my first mone, Instant Shine. I actually bought the mone from the AD store, since they had a money back guarantee, so I got the Togo of IS. You can check out my observations of IS and other mones, eventually, on my sig below, Amazing in a bottle…
For what you describe, ATTRACTIVE, HAPPY, AND DESIRABLE(I’d say, a mixture of the 2 previous feelings)…
ATTRACTIVE: IS/B and/or Instant Shine. IS/B, I’ve heard described, as a kittenish, Natalie Portman type of vibe. Not a diva dominating vibe. Instant Shine, while I’d categorize it primarily as HAPPY, I also find, in me, that it helps with attraction.
HAPPY: Instant Shine and/or IO. IS is my smile in a bottle. My relaxed, cool, and content with the world. Effects on others is a ‘glad to be around you’ vibe. I also get a boost in confidence with this mone. IO will bring out the bubbly convo’s around you. I’ve heard tell from Astrea, another experienced mone member, that IO is the corner stone of her mone arsenal. It gets her out of the blues, brings out the best in her. Really, a happy and content mone.
The A314 and AMMO are designed for men. Though, if you check out the women’s section, some gals have used them, in combinations with other mones to not appear too butch, and have had some success. I’d NOT recommend it for you. Start off with the single applications of the commercial line I mentioned above. Get a feel for how mones work… They will highlight and accentuate what YOU demonstrate… They won’t bring out things that aren’t already there…
Though, I’ve also tried IS/B by its lonesome, and it’s gotten me to appear more sensitive, dropped my alphaness by a bit. I could still take the lead in those around me, but it was much more difficult. It’s like I was saying, I DON’T WANT ICE CREAM!.. but, actually, scooping it into my mouth at the same time… 
The other links on my sig below are, in my opinion, important first read threads to men and women starting out with mones. Though, my journal with Amazing in a bottle link is optional… 