Hey, my name is Dave and i live in Western Canada. I am 33 and i am male. I have always generally been shy and awkward. I’m 6 feet and 225 lbs. I work out with weights and i’m fit. I have started running and my endurance levels have been going up. I’ve been told i’m cute before, but i have low self esteem and don’t view myself as attractive, but i don’t think i am ugly. Just plain i guess.
I used to do plays in school and did very well. I was used to getting compliments on my acting and when i look back on it now i had more self confidence as a kid than i do as an adult now. I’ve started taking acting lessons again and my teachers and fellow students all give me compliments. It feels good getting them. Nothing else in my life gives me that feeling so i have been getting deeper into this now. I am taking more acting classes and improv classes and i love it.
The only experience i have had with pheremones has been with Pherlure. I don’t know whether it works or not, but i have received compliments just on the smell. Sometimes, i tell a girl, “hey i just bought a new cologne. What do you think?” and i lean in and she smells me and i get a really positive reaction. One time the girl couldn’t stop smelling me and kept coming in close and eventually i got sex after the second date. I’ve been buying Pherlure just based on the smell.
I ran out of Pherlure so i’m debating whether to get that again or try something new or just buy Pherlure and something else also. I really doubt that you can just buy some pheremones and be this loser with chicks and just go to the bar, spray some stuff on you and, BANG!!, get the ladies. If i could get something that works while i am in close proximity with a lady over a 5 min conversation and have that edge then i’m golden. I’m familiar with the seduction community and have read books and even went on a bootcamp.
I think logically pheremones could work. Why not? It makes sense that you could have some concentrated pheremones that could make women more attracted to you. Whether the technology has gotten to that point… i don’t know. I’m just skeptical of the whole thing, but i have money and i’ve spent money on stupider things. The acting class i took previously was in a big theatre, but the one i am taking now is in a small room. There are some hot ladies and no competition. I want to buy some pheremones and try to see if i get some hits. The room gets hot with all the lights and cameras, but if the pheremones do work they should work in that really small environment. We sit really close together before we do our scenes… shoulder to shoulder.
I’m from BC as well (assuming that by Western, you mean BC), and I just started using Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, and a few others.
I would highly recommend the three I just mentioned, for you acting class, and then either some Ammo or A314.
Get a couple to - go size bottles first, and you’ll be able to see the results based on different applications (usually 2-3 shots of each will do it).
I got this stuff for my job (sales), and I required results in 5 minutes or less as well, and I’ll tell you that based on my 2 weeks experience, that this stuff definitely works.
Reapplication is important though, I find that the effects start to wear off after about 3 hours.
Turn Up The Heat is also awesome if you’re seeing someone, or for 3rd+ dates. Definitely has influence on female 'get down and dirty’ness.
Thanks for sharing your previous experience with pheromone products, and also about your personaility.
The products here are a little different than Pherlure and other similar “pheromone colognes”. What exactly were you hoping to accomplish using pheros? I know you want to attract women, but in what way? Are you looking for a long-term relationship, or one-night stands? How do you want women to see you? Would you prefer to be considered to be a strong dependable guy that a woman can count on, or do you prefer to give off the vibe of a slick guy that gets around?
This information will help us guide you to the best phero products for your specific needs.
Hi Daytona: I’ll second the recommend for Instant Honesty or Instant Openness for your acting class. These are great pheromones for loosening up yourself and others for easier conversations.
If you think you need some support in the confidence dept., Ammo might be a good choice for you. You shouldn’t worry about your looks so much. Most women are not hung up on physical beauty and are much more attracted to a confident, intelligent guy.
Hi Brock. I’m from Alberta. I love BC and i love Vancouver! I saw your journal post but i haven’t read it yet. Probably do so after this post.
Hi SillyKitty. I guess i want to get women more sexually aroused around me. I tend to fall into the nice guy zone. Not really interested in one night stands because i worry about std’s, pregnancy, etc… So far i’m looking at Instant Shine, Ammo, and Turn up the Heat. I don’t think A314 is something for me. I tend to give off a standoffish attitude and people generally take me seriously. It’s good because expectations are high for me and when i produce i get rewarded while other people get overlooked or ignored. For me i need products that help with people perceiving me as more fun, less nice, sexual, etc.. Not as serious.
Improv classes are good for this. I’m noticing more of an improvement in being able to be loose and quick on my feet. So that’s pretty much it i think.
In that case, Instant Jerk might be right for you! I haven’t tried it, but from what I hear, it will help get you out of that nice guy zone. Do a search on it and see people’s feedback, might be worth trying out.
Its ok to be skeptical, most people are until they have what we like to call the “Holy shit” moment when they realize that this really is working LOL.
Mones do attract but they dont do all the work for you. They are just one way that all mammals communicate. They send signals to others about you. These signals cause people to feel a emotion and its the emotion they are reacting to.
I suggest you take a look at AMMO and Ishine to start. AMMO is sexy and will increase attraction and arousal. Ishine is warm charismatic or draws people to you.
If you have qustions just ask. Your GC is on its way