I am not new to Pheromones but am new to the forum. I am local to SoCal/Cali/LA/OC, whatever title you want to give it. I would love any contact from people who are local and would love it if there are any guys or gals who appreciate the value of pheromones who want to go out together as I am fairly lonely. Though I have sometimes seen pheromones work and have many of them, using them is an art that I still need to learn and would appreciate all the help I can get. I also am challenged when it comes to interactions.
Hi and welcome!
In order to qualify you for the $25 gift certificate, and also help guide you to the best products for your needs, please tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to others. Are you shy? Are you outgoing?
Also, what kinds of things were you thinking of using pheromones for?
Hi
Sillykitty asked me to post a little about myself, so I think I can sum it up this way. I am not shy but lack some confidence and am hypersensitive so internalize every reject and tend to mull over even a spurned advance for several days and my confidence spirals inwards when this happens! I am very outgoing and love making conversation with girls and with intelligent guys. Obviously, my standard for guys I speak to is a bit higher, it is bound to happen. I tend to be more intellectual, but love the dance floor and love to party. So I try to wear pheromones for hits at clubs, coffeeshops and some meetings. Both because of my demeanor and the amounts I wear, I seem to get misread as sexually aggressive. What it is is that I am just overfriendly/overbearing and also (truth be told) a bit needy. This kind of projection happens when I have had one too many obviously, something I have resolved not to do in the future. Any feedback, any comments, or advice would be appreciated, but please avoid judgments as we don’t know each other’s lives! For women who know me (like some of my friends at lawschool), I am a better friend of gals than of guys as I am also sensitive to feelings and fairly introspective. Oh, if this says anything, I am a patent attorney and went skydiving in February.
Thanks for the info!!
I forgot to ask, what is your age? That can also make a difference.
I would definitely recommend Ammo for you. It is a great product that will boost your confidence and sex appeal, and can be worn in any environment.
Instant Honesty will improve the depth of your conversations and encourage women to feel more comfortable talking with you.
Instant Gentleman is another great product that will help mellow out the perception of “sexually aggressive”, and will cause you to be perceived more as someone women can count on (which women really like in a man!).
Hello and welcome to the forum.
Glad to see you finally joined! Can you tell us what pheros you have and how they have worked out for you?
Well as you know the pheros can certainly give you an edge but there also seem to be a few other behoviors that you may need to midify to be more successful with women. Not too many women want a guy who comes across as very needy.
The other point is that using none heavy products like TUTH is everday social situations will have you come across as too sexually aggressive. It usually produces results opposite of what you are looking for. Better to go with something like Ammo or Instant Gentleman during the day to broadcast polite interest or masculine warmth. The social products here: IO, IH and Ishine are also good day wear.
Hope this helps some. Looking forward to hearing back from you.
Hey shug,
So-cal girl here. Welcome to pherotalk.
I’m curious are you trying to attract girls or guys?It came across as possibly both so i thought I would inquire.
Different pheros may be of interest for bisexual or gay girls and guys.
Ie while ammo is a male product I have good results when using it w/ my girlfriend.
Also about how old are you? Pheromone output and what works best can vary with age.
I think from personal experience the socials are good for shyness as well as making it easier for more introverted personality types to socialize by increasing the possibility of a stranger initiating conversation.
I’m kind of the reverse of what you posted. I am introverted and shy although not so much these days as I was before tend to be a good pal to guys but I’m very picky about the women I socialize with.
Patent attorney sounds pretty cool as far as work goes and skydiving is just kinda wow to me.
Welcome to the forums. 
Hello, Welcome to Pherotalk
Do you have androtic products as well or mones from other companies ?
There are a lot of so-cal people here. I think they had a Bar mixer planned they were talking about down in the lounge. Be sure to post down there.
If you havnt started with mones from Androtics yet I suggest you go with AMMO Ishine and IO.
If you have and you need some tips just pop on down to the mens section and tell us what you have and how you been doing with them and we can
see if there is something you can improve in using them.
Your GC is on its way
Tisha
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