Hi From SoCal!!

Hey everybody my name is Chris. I just turned 20 yesterday and am currently browsing around for birthday presents (you guessed it, pheromones! :smiley:) I live in Temecula, CA pretty much in between San Diego and Orange County so plenty of things to choose from as far as dating activities hehe.

I’ve always been a very confident and fun loving person my whole life. I’ve always been the pushover nice guy but I have changed recently into more of a nice, but nowhere close to a pushover nice. I consider myself very good looking and attractive :wink: but I’ve always known I didn’t have that extra “vibe” that certain guys had over me. Hence, I am here!

I’m not exactly your center of the party but I have no problem whatsoever communicating and being fun as hell AFTER someone else starts the conversation. In other words, I cannot initiate conversations. I wouldn’t consider myself shy but I do know that for some reason I get that typical “gotta protect my ego” feeling; and end up not saying anything to that beautiful girl thats eyeballing me just in case she says no. Not to mention, i don’t seem to know what the hell to say, and that sucks because usually I’m witty as hell with all my friends.

Anyways…I’ve come to realize in my life that I’ve always had one bestfriend that no matter how he acted or what he did girls were naturally attracted to him…and not me. I chalked it up to looks (that worked wonders on my self-confidence haha) but then started to realize, these guys are effin ugly hahaha so wtf mate :confused:. I guess what I’m really looking for in pheromones is something to give me that extra “vibe”, that extra level of attraction. If possible something that can give me an extra boost of confidence to flipping say something to that gorgeous girl.

Well, I do apologize for the heavy introduction once I get started on something serious (and fun!) I don’t know when to stop >.< It’s a pleasure to be here on these forums I look forward to learning all I can!

Hi Chris, and welcome to the forum!

And thanks for the great info…

To give you that extra edge, Ammo is a perfect one for you to start with. It will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost and can be worn in any environment.

For help initiating conversations, Instant Openness is fantastic. In fact, sometimes you can’t get people to shut up, lol.

Instant Shine is a definite must-have for your pheromone arsenal. I like it personally for self effects, because it really uplifts my mood and causes the trivial annoyances to remain just what they are - trivial. And when others some into contact with your uplifted personality, their moods will improve too!

Welcome Chris.

Good advice above on products.

The io (and also ih) will help conversations flow easily once they are started, but in general the male still has to initiate. You have to suck it up and be brave. However, it is often quite a bit less awkward with pheromones. You may want to take a look at this recent thread - I can't approach... Please somebody help .

Hi Chris

I also think Ammo would be great for you. Also, read into Instant Gentleman and Instant Jerk, in my opinion 2 under rated products here that I think can be great for guys in your situation.

Have a good read of The Mens Guideif you have not already.

Also, it might be worth spending some time studying the techniques of champion pick up artists like Mystery Method, David De Angelo, Real Social Dynamics etc, you can learn a lot from those guys. With this information and a pheromone advantage you will probably have the edge over your friend in the near future :slight_smile:

Thank you guys for the responses I’ll take a look into the Ammo as well as the instant shine and go onwards from there. I’ll think about the io it sounds like it might be perfect. Thank you for those links as well I’ll be checking them out soon!

Hey Chris, and greetings from SoCal! :wink:

This is a great place to test pheros out.

That being said, please do not expect instant openness to “do the talking” for you. You still will have to initiate the conversation - that can be as simple as a “Hi.” THEN watch the words flow! :wink:

I agree with SK - Instant Shine will is a great all around product for attraction, confidence and partying. Its a great go to for everyday, AND for that special someone or situation.

Instant Gentleman is a great product too - VERY underrated.

Enjoy! Welcome, and hope you share your stories! I am always happy when more “locals” show up! :wink:

I’ve found from personal experience come talk to me 2 seems to help me both be more chatty and outgoing on its own as well as increasing the likelihood of someone else initiating conversation.
It’s a pre-release item but once you’ve tried some of the main line you may want to give it a whirl. I love the stuff. :slight_smile: Ammo is also a wonderful product.

My only other suggestion is check your body language you may be unconsciously sending the wrong signal.

Welcome to pherotalk :slight_smile:

Hello Chris, Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Don’t worry we love heavy introductions, they give us a better ideal as to your personality and we can suggest products that will fit your needs best this way.

I suggest the basic three to start.

AMMO for a sexy masculine attraction.

Ishine for a warm charismatic charm ( which may be what your friend produces a lot of) this one just draws people right in.

IO to help ease and increase conversation. Gives the exposed and the user the urge to interact more.

If you have any questions just ask and we hope to see you in the forum

Your GC is on its way

Tisha
Hostess/Guide