For the above questions…
I assure you unless you dump the whole bottle on that wont happen. It probably smells strong because you are adjusting to the smell of the mones. I can use up to 6 sprays of Instant shine and no one will comment on the smell or think I smell bad. Believe me the guys I hang with at work are honest and open with me. They tell me if I use a scent they dont like. When I tried “FlowerBomb” last summer they all hated it and made it known LOL.
There is a difference between guys being effected and just a pleasing smell. Like when I wear pink sugar (no mones) Guys will say “yumm you smell amazing, I love that smell, What is that”.
Add mones to the mix and it gets more intense. “Jesus I could lick you you smell so good, Christ why you gotta be married” They get in your space more. They get that look on there faces you know the one. Pupils dilate, intense stare, nostrils flair.
You will know the difference when it happens.
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Ok sweety I want you to take a deep breath and keep your mind open. I know its hard because your reading reports and wondering why your not seeing it yet. If you look back to the beginning of most of the expereinced users start here in the forum you will see that we have been where you are now. Some of us didnt see results that first week and were disappointed. The difference between the successful user and the ones that are not is simple. We didnt give up and gave ourselfs time to adjust and learn what works for us as individuals and what dosnt.
Every person will not get the self effects of the mones. That has been reported. Just like when I used my new mixes this week. I felt no different then normal. I was hoping for a confidence boost but I didnt get it. Dosnt mean the mones didnt work though. If your waiting for the self effects to tell you its working your approuching it wrong. The self effects are secondary to what the mones are designed for.
Your body is just adjusting to the mones. Some people will get a headache and I think its because they are using a sense that is under used by humans normally. Just like if a person spends most there time in the dark and then walks into the bright sun light. It can cause a headache or be kinda painful but your body adjusts and then you begin to see things clearly.
Your gonna need to get out amoung some people to see the effects of mones. Dont wait on the self effects. I would use the IS/A first because Instant Shine can be harder to pick up on.
Start with 1 spray and let the adjustment begin then move up to 2 the next day. Hair, neck, chest. Wrists I just use for when I want to see if the mones are going to effect me bad the first time I use them because this way I can run to the bathroom and get it off. Or if I am bundled up and running out of options for places to spray it.
I will use anywhere between 2 to 5 sprays of Instant sexiness. My sweet spot being 3.
I often see new people get disappointed when they read the reports and dont see the things others are seeing at first. I really cant stress this part enough. I have been using mones for a long long time. But when I first started I didnt get blatant hits right out of the gate. Mones enhance, they build, they take time to mesh with you and then suddenly it begins to happen. Hang in there you can do it 
Tisha