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Hi ya’ll, I’m a 22 year old female from Louisiana. I’m in the military, and I love my job. I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant, ready to squeeze this thing out at any minute.

I can’t really start this next part of with an “I’m here because…” because it’s a long, twisted complicated story. But, if you have a longer attention span than myself, you can go on and read ahead.

I began dating this guy about two years ago, and almost immediately fell for him. Our relationship wasn’t really stable at all for the year, always on again off again. Then, about a year ago, I moved in with him.
Now, my family and friends never really liked this guy. Not to sound conceited, but I’m an above-average looking female, and they thought that this guy wasn’t good-looking enough for me, on top of being a jerk.
Well, after living together for a few months, we realize that I am pregnant, and begin trying to sell our house and find a place in a nicer neighborhood, hopefully with an easier house note than before.
So, a few months go by, and the house won’t sell. Granted, the market’s not that good, plus he lives like a frat boy, so it’s always a mess and never completely clean when anyone came to see it.
The realtor (a good friend of ours) tells us that she’s going to do an open house for us, and to make sure that everything is spotless.
Needless to say, the house maintained it’s fratboy/bachelor look until the night before the open house, during which we were running around like crazy trying to get everything clean.
Now, ever since I’d found out I was pregnant, we’d been having issues. I didn’t trust him to raise my child, I didn’t approve of the way he raised his that he already had, and I was tired of his party lifestyle.
So, I’m cleaning out this closet, and I see a bottle of cologne on the floor next to all of his shoes, and I go to put it in the bathroom. I glance at the label, and although I can’t recall the exact name (either PHERO or EMONE, I think) I realize that this cologne has pheromones in it. I bring it to him, asking, “What is this?” with a tone and look on my face that lets him know that I know (to a basic degree) what pheromones are.
“Haha. I started wearing that when I met you!” he laughs.
Now, I’m not really mad, I actually thought it was kinda cute I guess. So we laugh it off, I call him a loser, and we finish cleaning the house.
I thought I’d heard somewhere that nobody could sell pheromones, that it was illegal, so I just assumed that it wasn’t real, that the cologne simply had the placebo effect.
Anyway, a few weeks later, I couldn’t take anymore. I knew he was lying to me, cheating on me, verbally and sometimes borderline physically abusing me. I left.
So, looking back, I’m just amazed at all the things that I let him get away with. I’m normally a strong, confident woman, and never take any crap from anyone.
I just kept thinking that it was the pheromones, and have been researching them online a little, just reading, and judging from what I’ve read here, they really do work, so I guess it makes sense.
I don’t hate people that use pheromones. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. I’m curious, I want to know what works, and I want to have it.
And that is why I’m here.

Sorry about the length, yall. I have a tendency to talk too much.

Hi, welcome to the forum.

Congrats on the baby! Just so ya know, you may want to hold off on using pheromones for a while because (I believe Tisha has stated before) that some of these products will effect how the baby bonds with you after delivery. I’m not sure which products can be used safely (and I may be wrong), but I’d hate to suggest something wrong here.

I will add that these products are legal, FYI…

Hey there Belle, welcome to the forums! Wow, i’m sorry that your boyfriend turned out to be such a loser in the end. :frowning: But i’m glad you were able to get out of it in the end! First off, let me clarify a little bit. Pheromones can enhance what’s already there a bit, but they won’t work magic and keep you in a bad relationship against your will. I’m afraid i don’t recognize the name of the cologne that you mentioned (could it have been Realm?), so i can’t really tell you what it was supposed to have been for. But now we can help you get your own advantage against the guys of Louisiana. :wink:

I know you’ve already told us so much, but would you mind answering some questions first? Like what kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? What kind of guy are you trying to attract? Alpha male or nice quiet guy? Where would you be wearing your pheromones? At the base, while shopping, to a pub (after the baby is born, of course :roll_eyes:)? And did you want any other effects besides attracting guys? These kinda things will help us make sure we recommend the best products for your needs, as well as qualify you for a $25 gift certificate. So let’s hear some more! Cheers!

Hello Belle

Nice to have a female member on board :slight_smile: Welcome :slight_smile: That was a touching story, i can understand how you feel there.

Well it is good that you decided to give the pheros here a try & yes the pheros are legal btw :slight_smile:

Tell us what are your goals in using pheros here, what kind of effects you hope to get from them plus tell us a bit of info about your personality so that we can help you better :slight_smile:

OK, I did a search (I want to try to be somewhat accurate), here’s the post: Pheromones at pregnancy Of course, it’s up to you how yo go forward. You can try them before delivery, at the very least!

And the guys ask some great questions…

Wow, up for only 10 minutes and this much help already. Thanks!

I ordered is/a and mx135 about two weeks ago. the mx135 hasn’t come in yet, but the is/a did, and came with a little thing of instant shine, too. I’ve been using them together, and people at work are more talkative, but no one’s exactly tried to ravish me at my desk (which is not what I’m going for, I’m completely uncomfortable even thinking about dating while I’m pregnant. I guess I just kinda want some male attention like I got before I was pregnant).

I’m pretty outgoing. In a large group, I’m the first one to crack a dirty joke that makes everyone gasp (I’ve been told I look too innocent to talk like that). I’m normally a happy person, but when angered, have been known to yell and throw things.

I always go for the alpha male, don’t really know why. In my experience, the sweet sensitive ones turn into just plain creepy. But once I have my alpha male, I want him to be sweet and sensitive. Does any of this make sense to anyone?

I’m about to have a baby, and plan on completely devoting myself to being a mother. However, I know that I’m going to want a companion eventually, and just want to put out the right vibes, I guess.

Well, the Instant Sexiness and MX135 are good choices. Maybe when you’re back in action there will be more products with copulins in stock to help you grab that alpha you’re after.

Yeah, you make perfect sense about avoiding the sweet sensitive guys, though I wouldn’t say they’re ALL creepy. Sorry, I needed a tissue there for a moment…

Seriously, thanks for the additional info about yourself. Have fun here!

Yeah, that’s right, she was talking about you there, Spartacus. It’s ok, Belle, you don’t need to spare his feelings. He has to be taken down a notch or two every now and then so ego doesn’t get too big for his head. It’s the washboard abs that do it, ya see. :wink:

Hmm, you have ordered a good selection of pheros there, the Instant Sexiness A for sexual attraction & the MX135 for being center of attraction is best suited for your situation there :slight_smile:

And btw if you are looking for closer & meaningful relationship with your new companion, try Instant Honesty :slight_smile:

All the best in trying the pheros & see you :slight_smile:

He’s got a point. In my avatar, I’m contemplating my navel.

Feel Good, why not make Belle some pheromonal suggestions, ya insensitive alpha brute!

(BTW, I agree with Phat about the Instant Honesty! Hey Phat!)

(And I’m just jokin’ with MFG above, folks!)

Sorry about that Belle, i got distracted by a distressed friend of mine (she got a 40 on a chem test) and just hit the send reply button. But i’m back now! For now i think you’ve got the best two products for you, both of which give off a sexy vibe, but not a sexual vibe. Ya know what i mean? Instant Honesty could do well for you, especially in getting those guys into a deeper feeling connection that you could capitalize on later. :roll_eyes:

When you’re ready for it, copulins should do well for getting the sexual attention that you’ll be looking for, but for now, keep up with the sexy struttin! :smiley:

Lol, sorry about the sensitive remark, should’ve known better. I think I may try instant honesty once baby gets to be around 6 months or so. As for right now, I guess I’ll just use what I have until he’s born. I read that thread you posted, and it makes sense, so I’ll stop using them once I give birth. Well, I have to get back to work (I don’t think the Army would approve of me doing this on their time!) Thanks again yall for all your help!

Alpha AND sensitive and only a few hours drive to Louisiana… :cool:

(BTW Belle, don’t mind me! I like to mess with MFG :slight_smile:)

Hello Belle

First let me say congratulation on the baby. :smiley:

Yes after he is born wait about 4 months before you start using them. You want to bond naturally with the baby. After that when his other senses like visual and auditory become more prominent the using mones will be fine.

Now mones can influence and enhance but they wont make people do anything against there will or better judgment. They spark emotion in others and people are governed by there emotions and how they feel and this is what they are reacting to. So while you BF used mones in the beginning and they did give him a edge in noticing him they didn’t change the outcome or take away your strength. Your conscious mind is still in charge of your decisions. Mones work on the subconscious mind.

I think what you have already is great to start with . IH would be a great addition as suggested.

If you have question just ask. Your GC is on its way

Tisha
Hostess/Guide

Thanks Mr. Feel Good…and sorry about your friend’s test. Tell her that large amounts of chocolate ice cream make all sad feelings go away.

Uh-oh, only a few hours away? Ya know, I should have my figure back in a few months…

Thanks, Tisha. Yeah, I know that there had to have been at least a little bit of something there for me to stay with him that long, it just makes me feels better to blame it on the pheromones lol.

Oh, and another update, the baby “dropped” last night, so it could come any day now. I’m excited!!

Oh yeah, we went out and grabbed some Noodle Company, then hiked on over to the grocery store and grabbed her some Ben & Jerry’s Creme Brulee ice cream… that helped out her mood alot. :o Oh, and after i scanned the test (so she can go over what she messed up later) we burned the thing to crisps. That helped too. :smiley:

I don’t know, you have that glow about you these days… might have to watch out for you as is… :wink:

That’s great! You’ll have to post a picture of your baby after it’s delivered! Babies are quite frankly one of the most adorable things on the face of this planet.