Hi ah!
Gone With the Wind suggested one of the products I would have mentioned for you right off the bat, the Instant Honesty. I agree with everything he had to say about it as concerns your situation.
A couple of other things I would suggest are Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness.
You mentioned pheromone use for enhancing well-being. In my experience, Instant Shine is a great introductory product for making one feel good, happy, “shiny”, etc, as well as making other people in your vicinity feel good. It has a “youthful energizing” effect in that it make you feel and seem younger.
Instant Sexiness does just what its name implies: makes a woman feel and appear more sensual and engaging. There are two forms of Instant Sexiness: A and B. Depending on what type of person you are and what type of man your Target Guy is, you would try one or the other for a specific effect, but it’s worthwhile to try both! What you initially think will work for you may end up not being your holy grail after all!
A is formulated to give a “strong, confident, take charge” sexy vibe. Hehehe, this one has been referred to over and over as “Angelina Jolie in a Bottle”.
B is formulated to emit a “kittenish, girly, soft, velvety, sensual” sexy vibe. “Marilyn Monroe in a Bottle” is its moniker. 
My advice to you would be to try Instant Shine first, alone, for a week or two. You need to find your specific dosage to determine how much you need for self-effect and how much you need to get reactions, or “hits”, off of other people.
Once you have Instant Shine nailed down (which really won’t take you a long time, honest), then I would say, move on to Instant Honesty. Follow the same pattern.
Once you have the feel good, communication products down, then move on to the sexuals. If your Target Guy is moving along with you, that is. If he starts to react oddly, like he can’t figure out what’s different and maybe he’s being a bit awkward, then I’d say cut back a bit and move slower. There’s always time and volunteers here ready to help with troubleshooting if this were to arise, however.
Happy phero-ing! 
