Does anyone know of good bedroom pheros with minimal side effects?
My wife is shy about expressing what she likes and I would like to open her up a bit. I also would like to ramp up her desire to please me, which would probably mean status pheros.
What about good pheromones to help me sell to very rich people?
I need something that gives me a confidence boost, creates a rapport with people, and helps them trust me–and not sexual.
I find that these rich people are suspicious of my product even though my product is exceptionally good. These are the same people who are not suspicious of competitors who are selling far inferior products; some of these competitors sell outright scams yet have many customers.
Minimal side effects?
But here is the thing: I want minimal side effects. Ideally the pheros would:
Contain minimal NONE or A-Nol. I have actually managed to have a NONE overdose from Scent of Eros which contains to NONE. (A-Nol metabolized into NONE.) A NONE OD is not fun.
Cause minimal post-use fatigue. I have chronic fatigue syndrome and it acts up every once in a while. I can’t afford to use a fatigue inducing mix.
About me
I’m 44 and white, my wife is five years younger. We’re married for over fifteen years.
When we first married, I twisted himself into a pretzel to obey her every whim. She was only mildy attracted to me on a physical level (which hurt) but I had no idea how to bring it up a level.
Over the past few years I have been transforming myself into a man with physical strength, a decent physique, high earnings power (although I got job offers in the six digits I am instead building my own business which has more potential than that), who can be fun to be with, and is [often] the leader in the home.
All this has had a mostly positive effect on my marriage as you can imagine. I’m looking to get to a place where my wife feels lucky to be married to me and shows it with actions and words.
I have used pheromones off and on for about twelve years now–although I have never tried AD products yet. I did a bunch of searching and have some ideas. I’m expecting you guys to recommend A1 and TUTH for me, perhaps with some talkative pheros mixed in.
Although SOE contains no None, you are right that its Nol will break down to None in time, so if you used enough of it, you could potentially get a None OD some way down the line. Also, Rone can have negative self effects on a few people, so it could play a part.
For the bedroom, have a look at P130, which can be goofy/playful and help make even small doses of None very tasty to women who may not do well with it.
Similarly, alongside a sexual (eg TUTH) TAC can be very useful - At doses over 20mcg it can really help with letting-go and getting adventurous in bed.
TUTH is a useful sexual - overt certainly but good in a relationship. If you want to go easy on dose, start with the standard version (2.5mcg per spray) and test-up from one spray carefully but at 44, I would normally recommend you use the 2x (5mcg) version as it is more suited to our ages and the tastes of more mature women but we all vary.
If you want status, trust and standing products, A314 oil is right in the frame - and I would go for the oil for its subtlety, longevity on the skin and low scent qualities. AD’s warranty is good, so you won’t lose out but remember it is based on steered Rone, so if you do have issues with Rone you might get them here - A314 can make some people feel overly serious/introspective at times. Honesty oil or P74 make for good trust/connection-deepening steering.
I don’t have anything to add, recommendations-wise. Mobocaster’s are all good.
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I did the same exact thing and lurked around here for a few years and the $25GC made me interested so I made an intro post and here I am a few years later and still going!
For the minimal effects thing what I have done to kind of keep my pheromones intact the way I like them is use lotion on my skin because I live in a very hot area and this helps slow the process of the pheromones breaking down. Also another key with this as well for me is to stay hydrated especially with say IShine so I don’t get any crash. I don’t drink, but imagine alcohol could play a big part in this to.
My wife is also pretty closed off at times as well, and it might be good to build her up with something like A314 and IH. I would still suggest getting some TUTH and would consider getting the regular version as a small amount will go a long way being 44. Also P75 could also be a very good None alternative as well.
For this area A314 is a must have for to gain the respect of these people. A314 in general if anything else I would get this one for this area and also for general use around your wife as well as this will more than likely be your most used pheromone. I would also get IH and IShine for this area as well.
I would consider the Men’s Ultimate Kit’'as you would get everything to try so you can see for yourself what is really best. If you don’t get the kit I would definitely look at,
**A314/B] This one will more than likely be the most used one. If you don't get the kit I would consider the oil version. Would be good for work and also the wife as well. Very universal. I am 37 and this has worked wonders for me at work and at home with the wife to.
IShine Will boost your confidence and appeal to everyone. Will give you that vibrant glow and is a really good match with A314.
IH Gives you that trust factor you are looking for with people and also promotes bonding and deep conversations. This has also helped things in my marriage as well to get to the bottom of any underlying issues that may be present which is well worth it just for this alone.
TUTH I know you are worried about the None, but this would in a small amount would go a long way to turn things up in the bedroom.
For research purposes P75 is a good None alternative. Also in my marriage P96 and P131 are some of my favorites to use for a happy bonding vibe with the wife.
mobocaster, I had not known about P130, thanks! Does it have potential in a business setting to help me be confident in approaching high-alpha clients?
I just read up on it and I’m finding multiple reports that:
It blocks out distracting thoughts such as fears, which gives the wearer a confidence boost.
On the other hand, some users reported that people around them seem to believe that they could say what they want (as if they sense that you won’t care, and it’s true, you don’t care.)
Women testers have reported horny self-effects.
Dee, Thanks for the gift card! I expect to use it once I make my decision.
A little more specific about my sales/status needs.
I am intimidated by potential clients (the rich) as if they’re wearing A314 or something . This calls for something to give me a confidence boost and/or take away my fear.
People don’t treat me like an expert in my field even though I created a product that may be the most extensively researched. It has also produced objectively better results than >98% of my competitors. This calls for something that projects an image of being an expert.
A314 seems like it is the way to go for this (perhaps with P130? for extra confidence boost), but will people still talk to me when wearing A314 solo, or does it need to be buffered?
Being 43 A314 at 2-3 drops should be just fine solo and it actually took me at least 6 months to get things with A314 dialed in to exactly what I want it to do in a mix. Solo it took me about 3 weeks to get the dose that is best for me down.
The key with it is to play the part also and to be inline with this vibe. So I would take note of how these people dress and other things as well and you will want to dress and play the part to get the most out of it.
The A314 will make a big impact on status and will give you a much higher worth to people and should help put you on there level. The thing is if you say wear a T shirt and jeans and put this on people will be kind of confused like why is this successful person in ragged clothes? I hope this makes sense.
Really if you want to get the very most for your goal, I would seriously consider the A314 in oil form over anything else. Then the more expensive IH, I would probably look at getting a Togo bottle to try and see if it fits you because this one is rather expensive, and then the IShine in the bigger 30ML bottle.
My sweet spot with it is actually 3 drops and I actually cut it back to 2 drops and replaced that third drop with 1 spray TUTH.
With A314 it will with time really boost your confidence level to wear you will feel no fear in approaching these people at all and will feel more on there level. Actually the key for me with it has been not to forget the little people and where I came from. A314 will be a very broad general use pheromone for you. To get really specific and if you can afford it,
A314 oil form
IH in the 5ML Togo
IShine 30ML big bottle
TUTH 30ML big bottle
With these 4 you will be able to do anything you are looking for at work and also with the TUTH/A314 things will also really open up for you with the wife as well.
I think you would get the most use out of these by far. I still suggest the men’s kit if you are just getting into pheromones and want to experiment so you have a really good idea of what they do, I just think these 4 will be invaluable for you and your goals more than the others starting off.
Personally I don’t regard it as viable in the workplace but you may find things different for your situation. A314/P114, A314/P74 or A314/IH/P74 are the sort of trusted/engaging/expert vibe mixes that suits my work environment - Scientists, medics, technologists, writers/media types but I try to work with just A314 as a baseline and only add the extra steering as needed. A314/IH/P74 is very good but has other properties that mean I had to severely limit its use at work as I was collecting just too many admiring followers - the sort that get you noticed in all the wrong ways! :o
Products with P130 mostly hit just a bit too young for me - although Summer Ammo/IG is a good all-round flirty/social/sexy/smart status mix around younger women.
