Hi,
My name is Rockford, I live in Montana.
I have always been a little interested in pheromones. When I was in high school me and my brother got a little packet of some (cant remember what it was) and put it on before going to school thinking we would have girls (including the teachers) pawing us for attention. Did not pan out as we expected, just a normal day of school really ![]()
And so I put the idea out of my head. Relegated it to the long list of things I had used to try and create attraction, without having actually ever worked on my personality or communication skills of course.
But that was when I had little knowledge of the impact of effort and the notion of meeting things halfway.
I am 24 now and am fairly good with that sort of thing. However I have to really, really, work to get a girl or make an impact on people. Dont know why but I have always seemed to have the effect of what you guys call OD’ing! Not so bad of course, but more pushing away than pulling in.
If I get a little one on one time with people I make a good impression, but only rarely do I get people wanting to make the first move or have that feeling of unconscious attraction, whether sexual or not. I never get the feeling that someone is “drawn” to me.
I feel like I must give off the same vibe as the sulking goth girl who is always looking down and rarely smiles - if you know what I mean. But I am very introverted, I like to think and reflect on things so I guess I might give of the impression that I dont want to talk.
And I am not grotesque nor do I have low self esteem.
Anyways I found this forum a while ago, I think I was searching around for cologne
and have come back again and again to read about the various kinds of pheromones and what kinds of effects they might produce.
I am leaning toward instant shine, as from what I can tell it fits what I would like the most. I also like the reports of the self effects it produces. Like I said, I could do with a little more outgoingness (if that is a word).
I do understand that they are not a magic bullet. Without actually having used any, I would imagine or guess that it would be comparable to giving of a good vibe. I dont expect to have girls fighting over me, but a little nudge in the right direction is nothing to scoff at. But if one did work for me I would expect it to be almost like when you have just heard some really good news and people just seem to know!
Just to be able to give off a good vibe I think is what I am looking for, and from what I have read, that is exactly what some pheromones can do.
Anyways I am looking forward to trying out some stuff and the whole idea of mixing them to find one that fits me perfectly really intrigues me. However I wont be doing that now or even anytime soon, I want to try out some of the premixed stuff to see what I like.
Rockford