Hi, my name is Dave...

For starters, I usually don’t introduce myself on forums, and I will freely admit mine main reason was to get the $25 gift certificate. Since I am introducing myself though, I thought I would at least take enough time to say why I am wanting to experiment with these. I have a very close friend (female, and I am male) that I have cared deeply about for a VERY long time 15+ years. We originally got together under shall we say unique circumstances (I wont elaborate). Throughout the years while the relationship has been there both physically and emotionally, our timing has sucked between other people we got involved with, financial, personal circumstances and even jail once on my part we never got the timing quite right. Now while both available she has an unfortunate duty of taking care of her mother who will die soon of cancer, and since returning back home after 35 years she ran into a gentlemen who is really a decent guy and a long term family friend who as I has a real thing for her. I can’t knock his tasteand while this may be nothing more than insecurity on my part and I like the guy, I don’t particularly care to finish 2nd. She and I are close friends and share a lot, but with the current and even worse coming turmoil, I have decided to do my damnest to “hedge my bets”.
I have known about phereomones for a long time, but was never really concerned about it predominately because of this lady. I am hoping for the added benefit of this being the surpise spark out of left field to cinch things once and for all.

Anyhow, that is my story and enough about me for now I believe…

Hey Dave and welcome to the forum!

Haha that is certainly understandable.. it’s why I introduced myself when I was new.

That is quite a story.. and kinda a difficult situation to be in it sounds like.

First of all, what is your personality like and how old are you? This could really affect what pheromones work best.

Right now, it sounds like Instant Honesty would be quite helpful. It really helps strengthen the emotional bond in relationships. Maybe some TUTH to give a boost in sexual attraction.

Hey, welcome my friend. Well, you do seem to have a lot of bumps coming along that will work against you. One being that once her mother passes, she will be deeply saddened and will probably want to be in a state where she’ll just want to keep to herself/her emotions. We all grieve differently, so who knows. She may be a trooper and be well enough to want company, but either way it’ll be tough on her part emotionally.

Second of all, I’m pretty sure that she won’t need the problem of having two guys fight for her affection (be it in a subtle way or not) during and after her mom passes. So pretty bumpy road, I say just act like you’ve always acted and just try your best to comfort her. So now that leads to pheromones…

I really suggest staying away from the sexual pheromones for now and just start with the social softeners first. IH is what I highly suggest for you because IH helps to deepen communication, helps to add a sense of trust, and makes the targets feel like they’ve known you for years and should trust you hence the name IH. I also suggest IS to help brighten the mood a bit, it also helps to give you a vibrant kind of glow to your persona that will be magnetic to those around you because IS helps to make you seem “fun to be round” with. I also suggest IG as it helps to add a non-negative masculine edge to you, helps the people around you feel comfortable around you, and gives you the appearance of a provider who can take charge.

Good luck.

Miko made some great points. This is a sticky situation and the best bet would probably be the socials.. like IH, IS, and IG.

Hi Dave, welcome to the forum!

As Future777 and mikotorocks suggested, Instant Honesty will help her feel closer to you and also help to strengthen the emotional bond between you. And yes, TUTH will help with sexual attraction, but you have to be careful not to use it any old place. I would also add Ammo, which will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment.

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