Hi, New to the forum...

hello I am a 53 year old male, that is on the verge of being divorced. We have been seperated for over a year and married for 25 years we hardly ever speak, which is fine with me because the last few years we were married we had become just roommates and bad ones at that. Oh BTW I live in Florida, and I joined the forum to get some insight on pheromones, because as apprehensive as I feel about being single I need all the help I can get. I feel a bit more scared and confused about this whole new world that I am about to enter than anything, because it’s been almost 27 years since I dated and boy have things changed, and that may be putting it lightly. I’ve not dated any since my separation because it just doesn’t feel right,or maybe that is the scared shyness coming out, but anyway here I am so any first thoughts will be appreciated.

hey welcome!

i understand that it is a little scary being single again. although i’m really young that has no experience like that.

pheros should def. help u gain some confidence back and maybe help u get back into the dating scene. keep in mind that they are not miracle workers.

some pheros that might be good for you:
instant openness to help with increasing the amount of conversation.
instant honesty to help create that close, bonding feeling. this should be great to wear on a second date to help further things :slight_smile:
also, u should consider trying some other sexual men pheros. but i’m sure guys can give u a better davice than i can :slight_smile:

gluck and welcome!

Welcome to the forum Gamo! Hey man! I’d imagine that’s a tough thing to go thru…just know you’ve got friends here!!!

Can you tell us some more about your personality and where you’re wanting to use pheromones. Sounds like you are looking for something for female attraction, but pheros can be useful for gaining respect at work, more interaction and connection with people, boosting self-confidence, etc. That kind of info will help us to make recommendations specifically for you.

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Thanks remmy, it is truely a jungle out there for this old domesticated house cat, so anything to bring out a little of the wild in me is going to help. BTW I have been clubbing as it’s called nowdays with some of my married friends, and have been approached by ladies before but just cannot seem to get over this not sure what do syndrome. I’m sure to them I have that deer-in-the-headlights look about me so they just run off.

Hey gamo10 welcome aboard,
I imagine it must be very scary getting back out there. Ammo is a great phero for getting extra attention from the opposite sex. I contains none and afew buffers to not “come on too strong”. Instant female magic is another goodie, it seems to put women in a good mood while your wearing it. What kind of places will you be trying them out? at the office? at a bar? Depending on your environments of use we can make better suggestions.
good luck :smiley:

Thanks river, I am very outgoing and do not meet strangers, I’ve been told that my laugh is contagious and that I look very young for my age, most guess that I’m in my early fortys. I have a very good job and am respected there, so my job is not an issue. It amazes me that young ladies mid to late 20s hit on me as frequently as they do and I am just lost, I have children there age. But I am looking to attract ladies in there mid 30s and up, I just think I would be more in a comfort zone there, not that I’m being picky, I just have not been able to follow through. BTW it’s not that I get approached all the time, but I do get a lot of smiles from women and just not sure how to interpret them.

Thanks for giving us some more info. It’s very helpful.

Wow!! Sounds like you’re the kind of guy every woman would like to know!:wink: LOL! It’s good that you’re an outgoing and cheerful person and obviously good looking if you get that type of female attention all of the time!:slight_smile: Your natural pheromone level must be fairly strong. I say that because typically, our bodies start decreasing pheromone production as we get older, but this does not seem to be, in your case.:wink:

There’s a few products that you should consider:

I suggest trying Instant Gentleman. It contains androsterone which helps to promote a respectful aura of reliability, safety, and masculinity. I would hope this would pull in more “age appropriate” women that it seems you’re after.

Ammo is a well buffered female attractant which means that it is appropriate in almost any social setting and is a forum favorite. This creates a sexual vibe and increases sexual tension to move you from the “just friends” to “potential mate” category.:slight_smile:

Instant Shine gives off a youthful, fun vibe and usually results in some good uplifting self-effects as well as drawing others to you…it has kind of a “superstar” effect. It seems that you are naturally upbeat, but it may help you feel less “anxious” when meeting new women…kind of “chilled out”.

Instant Honesty brings comfort and a more connected feeling of closeness and bonding which is so essential to establishing those “quality” relationships. It’s excellent at diminishing personal space.

Don’t be scared…we’ve got your back!!:wink:

Thanks river for the nice comments, I do not have the confidence right now in myself as I should to be able to act on, I’m sure in time I will. Basically I’m one of those people what u see is what u get. I do have a fovorite cologne “armani mania” that really get the attention of not only women but have had numerous remarks by men as to what I was wearing. Will the use of products like Ammo or Instant Shine take away from that. Is there an unscented version of something I could mix with my favorite smell to enhance my chances drawing that special someone a little closer?

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

So sorry to hear about your split. I can be hard to get back out there after so many years of being married but mones can help to make it a little easier at least.

I suggest Double AMMO, Men over 40 make less anone and by getting double you can reach your dosage without feeling over scented. Plus its more cost effective.

I also suggest Ishine for a warm charismatic youthful signal.

IO would be goos for a fun friendly chatty social mix. I know your outgoing and get alot of smiles but this can turn those smiles into openings to go beyond smiles and have them talk to you more.

If you have questions just ask

Your GC is on its way :smiley:

Have fun

Tisha

That’s understandable. Give it time. You’re out of your element a bit and need to get comfortable again with the idea of the “just you” social aspect of your life right now. I really believe that Instant Shine and Instant Honesty can help make this a little easier. Shine helps to put you and those around you in a good mood…I’d even say a “carefree” mood and the Honesty creates a bonding effect which helps make that social interaction much easier. Have you ever met anyone for the first time and just felt so comfortable and connected with them that you could have sworn you’ve been friends for a long time? That’s the best way I can describe these products. Now, I’m not trying to say they’ll erase ALL anxiety in these new social situations, because they won’t, THAT will really depend on YOU, but if you’re willing to smile and start the conversation, they will help move the conversation along more smoothly. BTW, these two products can be used by themselves or also in conjunction with almost any other product.

That’s like a breath of fresh air and IMHO, the only way to be :wink:

The Instant products come in a Neroli scent which I would say is slightly citrusy. Neroli is a commonly used perfume ingredient because it helps with diffusion which, of course, is important. However, the smell is fairly light and can easily be used with perfumes and colognes. And I wouldn’t suggest physically “mixing” anything. Just apply your cologne as usual and then spray the pheromones on.

Ammo, however is cologne based, so if you like the smell, you may not want to use anything with it. But, some of the forum users here have successfully used it with their regular cologne too. I think it depends on the cologne and how well the fragrance “blends” with the Ammo. Remember what I posted earlier, that Ammo is a female attractant and arousal product which will help “draw that special someone a little closer”. And, like Tisha suggested, try Double Ammo. I think you’ll like the results.:slight_smile: