Hi My Name is Martin Adams i am 43 years old and live in the mid north coast of New South Wales in Australia.I have been seperated from my ex for just over 12 months. She has moved to Sydney and started a new life with a new man. I have 2 boys who i look after as well and i have my own business concreting full time.One of my sons works with me as an apprentice. I have a pretty busy life and between work and the boys dont get time to go out that much.Since our seperation i have found it hard to move on as i lack the confidence i need to approach women and am clearly out of practice in that departement.But i dont lack confidence in my own ability and strength of character.So in the past 12 months i have been getting in shape and trying to build up my self esteem. i have lost over 20 kilograms in weight.have been going to the gym 3 to 4 times a week. Have had plenty of comments saying that i look in great shape and looking attractive and handsome etc.which sounds silly when you say it yourself! But when your getting older it seems a bit pathetic going out to try and pickup!! Who wants an old guy? Even if he is in great shape!So i have heard about pheremones some time ago have seen it on the television . So i stumbled on this site while doing some searching about these type of products!I must say i am a little dubious , “anything that sounds too good to be true often is”.Is there really products that that give Instant Shine,Instant Honesty, Instant gentlemen,Instant Jerk. All sounds like hype to me!!!So Basiclly what i am saying is put your money where your mouth is and “SHOW ME THE MONEY”.If you have a product that will prove to me that pheremones work give me your best one you have to try!!! If it impresses me then i will stock up on your products with a large order!!lol Thanks Marty!!
Welcome! Congratulations on getting in shape and building your confidence. Pheromones can help even more and give you an extra edge in meeting women. Instant Openness is great for breaking the ice and making people more open to talking to you. You might also wanna try A314. That is very popular for helping you put out an alpha vibe and getting people to respect you. That can be very attractive to women! Luckily the instant line comes with a money back guarantee so you can try all of them if you want.
Hi Marty - Welcome to Pherotalk. 
Don’t let your age hold you back - Once I got myself back together after my breakup - in a similar way to you, I found that if anything there is a wider choice than ever and as you age, the women are more varied and much less hassle than when we were younger.
The pheros that could help you fall broadly into three categories, depending on what situations and aspects of your personality you want to enhance.
1 - Socials. For helping to meet/get to know people:
Instant Shine - Creates a happy and good to be around impression
IO - Promotes free flowing conversation.
IH - Aids closeness and bonding
2 - Sexuals:
Ammo - Probably the best starter phero, this is a balanced social/sexual/attractive mix that will go down most anywhere without coming off as overly horny. You will need to test to find your effective dose as we all produce differing amounts of Androstenone and too much can make you seem overly horny/agressive etc. However, it is hard to go badly wrong with Ammo.
TUTH - Much more of a sexual product that is best used with someone you are already in a relationship with. However, by our age, it can be useful in pickup when used alongside some social status pheros. You need to remember that younger women are generally attracted to a lower level on none and that level rises as they age - by their mid 30’s, you can successfully use a lot more.
IJ - A strongly sexual and in your face attraction product. Use this one with care as it can backfire as often as it works but when it does work - wow! It can also easilly trigger agression in guys around you.
3 - Status:
IG - Creates a smooth/suave and capable impression but fairly light and great for general socialising.
A314 - Probably the most subtle and complex phero here that works in all sorts of interesting ways to enhance your image. It promotes trust, respect, capability and strength, with a strong alpha vibe that can set you apart and above everyone around you. If you are looking for a LTR, this one is a must as it implies “catch” in all sorts of ways. It does sometimes need softening though as you can come-off as a bit standoffish when wearing it. One or other of the socials can help here. Similarly, it can be steered in a more sexual direction by using something with more none - Tuth is a favourite of mine as it creates an impression of status and unashamed sexuality which goes down very well with the women around my age.
You are quite right to have your own concerns and you also need to bear in mind that pheros don’t do all the work, you need to behave and present yourself in an attractive manner too. So do have a read of this thread:
Which has all the basic info you need to get started with mones and I hope you see good results soon.
Welcome to pherotalk Marty!
When you get acquainted with the guys here you will answer that question who wants a guy who is old trying to pick up girls at a club.
Your are as old as you feel.
The trick is to just have fun and make it seem you are minding your own business while picking them up 
Your gc was issued! 