Tantric! Thanks for the introduction.
As James has commented, the social products would suit you best - Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness. You might want to read more about A314 and Instant Gentleman.
I suggest you have a good look at The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any more questions.
Welcome to the forum and be sure to return and let us know about your results once you start using 