Hello!
I won’t ask you to mention the forum, but what on that site made you choose this one. Also, can you describe your personality at bit more? One version of Instant Sexiness would be a logical choice. But I don’t think Sexiness A would be quite right here. If you think you could be most congruent with the kittenish vibe of B, I’d try that.
“Being “outgoing and submissive” does seem confusing and is fodder for discussion in and of itself. Anyways, if your TG is on the alpha side you might find that he responds better to the softer kitten vibe of IS//B, not to say that more beta type guys don’t like that vibe as well.”