Welcome Kat, where in Asia are you from?
Xiphoids suggestions are very good. I also suggest you spend some time viewing the womens forum here. When you get time, have a read of The Womens Guideand let us know if you have any more questions.
If you don’t mind, can you tell us more about what changes you would like to see from pheromone use? Also, what do you mean that you are “manipulating with people”?
Thanks