Hi Everyone.
My name is Sandy. I am 29 and a married, and have a little girl that is 2, and I am the gaurdian of my 11 yr. old sister. Now I have been with the same man for 10yrs, and out of these 10 we have been married for 6yrs. Lately- we have been fighting, and not agreeing, and the passion and romance that was once there has just died out. I know the love is there- but the romance is gone. I want to rekindle it.
We are actually seperated right now and have been for a little over a month- we see each other briefly every day- because of our baby girl… What can I do to spark the passion, that we once had…how can I re attract him- I Have made up my mind ( although I have always been very shy) that in my 30’s I was going to be sexy, and more alluring and confident. THis is a switch like night and day- I have been practicing for the last 3 weeks. I have started dressing sexier and fashionable- and just being more confident…
He is not the only one who has noticed- but he is the most important one that I want to notice. He has been telling me how attractive I have been lately- I just want to do something that will send it over the top- want his eyes to be all on me- and feel the passion that was once there, and make it stronger- Help… thank you
i love it when a new girl joins the forum
i understand its really upsetting fighting with ur husband.. but u should know that pheros can’t solve everything. it could however, def. give u some help
i think u should try with the instant lines.
instant honesty shoudl help u guys tighten ur bond and help with some of the communication issues. instant sexiness should help u be more sexy and help with ur confidance also
also, when lust after me comes back in stock, u should def. give that a shot as well.
ask me any more questions!
Hi Sexy30! Nice to have another female on the forum!!
Give Instant Sexiness and Instant Honesty a try. The Instant Sexiness will arouse him and really make him look at you as a WOMAN and the Instant Honesty will help deepen your connection and hopefully get the communication going. You may even consider some Lust After Me which is even more sexually alluring than Sexiness but you may have to wait until that one’s in stock. There are 2 versions of Sexiness, A and B. Tell us a little more about your and your guy’s personalities and we’ll make a suggestion for which one to try. Are you shy, does he prefer strong independent women, etc.
I actually ordered Instant Sexiness to go (not sure if it is A- or B)
and Instant honesty. This is just to experiment and try it out.
Not about me- I am shy, but very strong and independent. I do have a bit of low self esteem- but Im working past this. I work, and I try to be a good mother-and wife. Are communication between each other also started falling thru the cracks before we seperated- so we do need to reconnect on that level as well. I do not expect the Pheromones to work miracles- but I just want to re catch his eyes on me- if you catch my drift.
As for him- he is very macho, and prideful, but at the same time- very sweet and tender and loving. He is very much a dreamer, and entreprenuial minded. While I am a realist. Let me know if you need more details…thanks
It takes alot to keep a marriage fresh but finding ways to spice it up can be fun. Change is good, it sparks there interest. I think its great your willing to try new things and expand your horizons. I feel its a good sign already that he is noticing the changes you have made.
I see you bought some Instant sexiness (you ordered A by the way) and IH. This is a great start.
I also agree with the ladies above in suggesting you get LAM when it is back in stock. We will teach you how to use it in the ladies forum.
I also suggest Ishine not only to effect him but you. Its upbeat, charismatic, warm and just makes you feel like there is nothing you cant do.
If you need any help using them just let us know and keep us posted on how your doing.
By the way what made you think of using mones and how did you find Pherotalk ?
see how instant sexiness A works out for u. its great for some confidance booster
also, maybe after u get a little more experience with the pheros, u shoudl consider trying mx135 (or 235 or 335.. which are the same things in different scents) mx135 would be really great to help u be in the center of the attention, which might be the confidance booster u might need
The difference between versions A and B of the Instant Sexiness are:
A: strong, sexy, confident; has been called “Angelina Jolie” in a bottle; TAL heavy, contains some TAH. Men who like more dominant or independent women respond well to TAL. It gives off a stronger female alpha vibe, confidence, and strength; Version A has a lot of this in it and this is the version that you have in the TOGO.
B: soft, sexy, kittenish; has been called “Marilyn Monroe” in a bottle; TAH heavy, contains some TAL. Men who like to be more dominate or like more submissive women respond well to TAH which Version B has a lot of. Makes them feel like they have to take care of you and lead more.
Usually, one version will suit you better than the other and a lot of it has to do with what kind of personality you have. However, most women can wear both versions equally well. Both versions combo well with the socials like Shine, Openess, and Honesty. It’s like the Instant Sexiness makes them want to be near you and the socials make them want to STAY near you. From what you wrote, even though you say you’re a bit shy, you also said that you are strong and independent so I think version A will suit you well. It will also give you a bit of a confidence boost too!
The Lust After Me is exactly that…it is more sexual and contains the highest amount of couplins of any product. Couplins are female pheromones that basically announce that a fertile female is in the near vicinity! Men definitely notice!! BTW, Instant Sexiness also contains couplins which is why it’s such a great attractant.
I hope that helps explain the difference among the attractant products.
Great- This is all wonderful info. Please teach me more.
I would love to try new versions. What ever all you experienced Phero users suggest. I am really excited to use the first two I got: IS and IH…
How do you suggest I use them- alone or together. How many sprays do I use of each. Where do I spray them… Let me know…
Also to answer Tishas question on how I heard about Pheros…
I was online looking at the Victoria Secret site- and came across a product made by Booty Parlor- " Kissaholic" it is a lip gloss set that has pheromones in it… This sparked my curiosity…
SO…I went on to Google- and searched for Products made with pheromones…and voila- I came across Pheromonestalk.com…and that is how I discovered all of ya all… But I am happy to be here-and cant wait to learn more- try new stuff.. and let ya all know how it works for me…
hey everybody- I just recieved my Pheros- wow that was a fast shipment.
I recieved the Instant Honesty. Great- but I also recieved a bottle marked- MX235- is this the same as Instant Sexiness A. This was the other Pheros I was waiting for…Please advise- thanks
hi mx235 is not the same thing as instant sexiness A.. mx235 (which is the same thing as mx135 and mx335) is one of the forum favorites, kinda dubbed as the “super star mix”
with this mix, ppl tend to give u more attention and treat u really special. its very very TAH heavy meaning that its key ingredients are similar to instant sexiness B. (key ingredient in instant sexiness A is TAL)
Thank you girls for all your help- its much appreciated…
I will keep asking questions, until I can get the hang of it, and some experience.
Can somebody explain to me what the difference of TAH and TAL are?
B.T.W-
I am such a dork- I was so excited/nervous when I got my package- that I accidently dropped my Instant Sexiness A on the floor. I walked away from my desk, and upon my arrival- there it was under my chair laying lonely on the floor… However- I am super Happy - that I found it… Any advise on where to spray it or how to use it?
TAL: strong, sexy, confident; Men who like more dominant or independent women respond well to TAL. It gives off a stronger female alpha vibe, confidence, and strength;
TAH: soft, sexy, kittenish; Men who like to be more dominate or like more submissive women respond well to TAH; Makes them feel like they have to take care of you and lead more.
I hope that helps.
As with any pheromone, start with 1 spray and work up from there. For example, day 1 use 1 spray and note any self-effects as well as any effects on others. Day 2 use 2 sprays and so on. It’s helpful to keep some type of journal (you can start one on the forum if you wish) and write down your observations, thoughts, words that pop into your head, etc. Eventually, you’ll see a pattern emerge and be able to determine the best dosage and application points for you (also called your “sweet spot”). Application points can include your hair, front/back/sides of neck, chest, breasts, wrists, inner elbows, back of knees (if wearing shorts or skirt), etc. Basically any pulse point would work as these areas typically produce the most heat and thus diffusion. The hair is a great diffuser as well since you can just give a quick shake of your head and send the pheros airborne again. There is a stickie in the womens forum (the posts in the top section of the page) about how and what info to report that would be helpful for you to read thru.
Once you find your “sweet spot” for each pheromone and know what your typical reactions are, then you can start using more than 1 product at a time (combos). Knowing what your sweet spots and reactions are for each individual product will help you to formulate more effective combos but even these may need to be tweaked a bit since some reactions may be slightly different when products are combined together but at least you’ll have a good base to start from.
BTW, I find that for the commercial products (the Instant Line in particular), the effects are pretty much diminished after about 4-6 hours, depending on your dosage so you may need to re-apply throughout the day.
We look forward to reading about your new adventures!
Hi roomies… I just had the pleasure of my 19yr old son moving back home. He has countless “friends” over the house. Several 20 somethings 3-4 at a time in my house…Ahhhhhhhhhhhh. Whats a 30 something Dad to do??? Shop for “Ammo”?
when I got my package- that I accidently dropped my 
However- I am super Happy