hi :)

My name is Liz. I’m 18 and I am a college student in the St. Louis, MO metro area. I’m here because I am currently in the process of changing my life for the better. I was depressed and used to do drugs but now I am clean and sober and taking medication for my depression. I want to make friends in this area because I am originally from Chicago, IL. Unfortunately, I went through my whole freshman year a loner, to say the least, and I’m not even that “ugly” or “unfashionable,” per se. In fact, a lot of people tell me or my family that I am attractive, it is just my lack of positive self-esteem that creates this invisible barrier between me and everyone else. I am now aware of this, so it has become easier for me to try to overcome this obstacle.

Regardless, I have now found myself in a different, more pleasant state of mind, and I would like to meet people in order to attain some sort of social life. I do not know anyone here in this area, and I know now that I am a bit happier than I used to be and I am more likely to talk to/be more open with people I don’t know. I also got a new job which requires me to promote a company by talking to people in public places, so that is also helping me with my “shyness.”

I am seeking information about pheromones for inexperienced users. I am not expecting a miracle, and I am just hoping to “top off” what I already have to offer. It would be nice to have a significant other at some point. Of course, I’m hoping to make some friends first.

I would appreciate any information that anyone would like to share. What are good female pheromones that are useful for inexperienced users? I noticed that some of the community uses a combination at the same time, is this more effective, or is there a product that seems to do the trick for the most part?

My main goals of pheromones are:

  • To help make myself more approachable.
  • To help myself at work by making potential customers likely to want to talk to me or make lead appointments. (More for them to want to talk to me, of course.)
  • To assist in my journey for better self-esteem by contributing to the routine I have established to help myself reach my goals.

Like I said, I would really just like to make friends of both genders so I am able to establish a social group. From there, I think the rest of my goals, like getting a boyfriend, would fall into place.

By the way, let’s say I use pheromones once and make a connection with someone who wants to meet again. Is it absolutely necessary to wear the pheromones at every future meeting with this person? Or would it be possible to alternate?

As you could probably see, I am very curious to learn more about pheromones. Thank you for your time, I hope to hear from you soon.

Welcome Liz!

To help overcome your shyness problem, try a combination of IO + IH. Use equal sprays of each.

IO gets people very chatty and talkative. IH get people to have deeper and more meaningful conversations. Used together, the effects are combined.

These can each be used as stand-alone products also.

Good luck and let us know how things go!

Hi and Welcome Liz to PheroTalk!

I thank you for the detailed and lucid introduction. Thank you for joining and being part of this community! We were all newbies at one time so the Intro forum is a great place to give back!

Good for you! Getting out of the rut of drugs and getting into enjoying life. That’s awesome and congratulations!

For just getting out of a down day and perk you up, I’d say INSTANT SHINE… to me it’s been a smile in a bottle! I love the stuff, which reminds me I’m running low on my 30ml bottle…but it gives me a content feeling and others feel relaxed and happy around me.

For work, since you are speaking with many people, you should try IO + IH. This will open people up easily and have time speaking to you like as if they’ve known you a while…
Though, I would suggest they be in your phero cloud for about a minute before the vibe is associated with you and of course, you must be ‘available’ for convos in body language and honest smiles…

For a guy friend(s) who you met with a certain mone or combo, you don’t have to wear it all the time with them. They will start to have a certain mental picture about you and will still associate it with you as long as you are congruent with that picture.

You can check out my sig below how to get the most out of mones by Steve O and how to know what are ‘hits’ by Tisha. Excellent reads on mones.

The women’s forum is also a wealth of gems on life, love, and of course mones!

Need any other clarifications, we are all here for ya!

Cheers!

hey, welcome Liz. IH and IO are good for establishing good connections. IO makes others open up and chatty, while IH makes them feel close and connected.
Also, look into CTTM2.
Also, I would get instant sexiness B. It would make your feminitiy shine in a good way and should draw in a lot of people.
Good luck and have fun!

Welcome to Pherotalk Lizzy!

Life is precious and sometimes we forget and every so often something happens that jolts us back and reminds us that no matter how bad a situation is there is someone going through something worse.

I am glad you joined this community and I believe having a place where you can express yourself and the kind of persons you find here will definitely help in making you feel better.

I don’t expect you to waste your amazing young life sitting on the computer because after all if you are going to get the most out of these products then you definitely need to get out of the house and start testing.

Instant openness will help with others opening up to you. They won’t tell you their secrets but you will get them talking and chatting a lot and that is good. Once you get persons to talk listen to what they are saying and not saying so you can get a feel for who they are.

Instant shine —> I personally love the self effects of this product and so do many others. What will blow your mind is that it will give off this youthful amazing vibe that will draw others to you.

Instant sexiness/a and b are not social pheromones they are pheromones to attract sexually and instant sexiness/a makes you feel confident so you act accordingly and that will attract men and women alike.

A —> Like I mentioned above you feel confident and give off that vibe. Some women can’t wear both and need to wear what best goes with their personality.

Instant sexiness/a is for a woman who is sexy in a dominant sexual vixen sort of way.

Instant sexiness/b is for a woman who is more girly and cute. The cute next door neighbor kind of girl who dresses more for comfort than to attract men but can be very sexy to the alpha male.

It’s very important that before mixing and matching you get a feel for each pheromone individually so you know what each one does you can then pair it up with another pheromone for amazing results.

I don’t mix and match much but it’s all about experimenting and getting to know what your pheromones can do separating but more importantly when mixed on your skin what the results will be.

E.g —> Is/b on it’s own leaves the guys watching me but I don’t get as many coming to talk to me unless I pair it with cttm 2

Pop into the women’s section and you will read many posts about what am talking about when it comes to mixing the pheromones.

You took that step and made the decision to take your life into a more positive path I am very proud of you. Now that you are trying to get your life together things and ppl will come your way to throw you off track. KEEP HOLDING ON!

I look forward to seeing your results and answering all questions you may have.

Your gc was issued. :slight_smile: