I stumbled onto the forum while doing research on confidence builders. I am an asian girl hailing from sunny Florida. I am a fairly successful individual in my field, well liked by my peers, but my shyness definitely seems to be getting in the way of me furthering my career ambitions and goals. It’s sometimes crippling. I believe I have come a long way from my bookworm days, but still need help in feeling more self-confident. I think there is an extrovert in me just dying to come out! Also, though I get many compliments on my looks and appearance, those compliments rarely come from my hubby who I’ve been married to for 4 years, and whose drive no longer seems to match my own. I would like some help in heating things up between us. I was looking into purchasing instant shine and sexiness/b. Would you recommend this combination? Any help is appreciated.
Haruko, welcome! Thank you for your intro!
I think the pheromones you are considering sound really perfect for you. The Instant Shine will make you both feel great and the IS/B for you will work well with that shy, yet sexy vibe you’ll want to give off. Probably one of the best things to do will be to read up on the effects of both pheros and see what’s happening with other women when they use different pheromone combinations. The women’s section is gonna be a wealth of information and accounts of the experiences of some seasoned 'mones users.
Here are a couple of links just to get you started, but I definitely think you’re on the right track already!
Welcome to the forum, Haruko! You have some good mones ahead of you. For what you mention on shyness and the extrovert trying to break out, I would suggest IO.
IO gets a bubbly around you, just want to talk about Anything vibe. However, you’ll still need to ‘be’ there with your comments and attention to others. Just be aware of the IO and what it does so that you’re not overwhelmed.
For the fortifying of your inner self, I’d suggest IS/a. It’s more of an Angelina Jolie, tough and sexy vibe that my wife didn’t quite like as it took her a bit further from where she is normally in attitude. I had asked her to test it out. She’s not much into getting the ‘leader’ vibe, which IS/a also gives off.
Have you tried mones before?
Hi Andsoitgoes and Alpha1, thanks for welcoming me to the forum. I have never tried mones before but based on what I have read here, I owe it to myself to give them a try! I will add IO and IS/a to my wish list. Thanks for the suggestions.
Welcome Huruko,
I know shine and IO and sexiness is a great start but in terms of getting your hubby back in bed am not sure if you need some more edge.
There are quite a few women on this forum : tisha23, bella who came on here looking for something to increase the spark in the bedroom with their hubbys.
Pop into the female section and see what advise they have to offer.
Your gc was issued!
Hi Mickaelia,
Sorry for the delay in responding but I have been in major testing mode after I received my mones (which arrived so quickly by the way!!!). So far I am loving IS and IS/B. Instant shine has improved my mood considerably, it puts a lasting smile on my face and makes me more open to engage in conversation and banter with colleagues. In terms of IS and Instant sexiness B on the hubby…after a couple of days of me wondering if his nose was plugged up, I’m happy to report they are working! He has been inexplicably playful towards me and displaying overt acts of affection…very unlike him. However, I don’t think I care much for IS/B self-effects. I’ve noticed that using IS/B makes me feel a bit vulnerable and coy at times, which is what I am trying not to be. I’m curious to explore IS/A self-effects. Been scouting the posts in the women’s section so getting an idea of what I should order next. Thanks!
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