I think the pheromones you are considering sound really perfect for you. The Instant Shine will make you both feel great and the IS/B for you will work well with that shy, yet sexy vibe you’ll want to give off. Probably one of the best things to do will be to read up on the effects of both pheros and see what’s happening with other women when they use different pheromone combinations. The women’s section is gonna be a wealth of information and accounts of the experiences of some seasoned 'mones users.
Here are a couple of links just to get you started, but I definitely think you’re on the right track already!