My name is Nikhil Bhavsar, and I currently live in India.
I work in sales/motivation and am 32 years old.
My normal personality is easy going and chilled out, and don’t have problems with women.
In fact, to get away from one girl, I started acting beta and depressed (seemed like a good idea at the time!), to a point where I actually started believing this. Life is good, lot of opportunities, but I cannot get over the fear of stalking women (too much charm can be harmful).
Any ideas how to get my alpha state back in my control? I gave her so much power over me, I cannot even remember what it feels like to own my own power to make decisions!
I’m looking at A314 but afraid that it might just release the pent up aggression inside (I’m dealing with cops and politicians currently so cannot afford to get into fights), yet I am sick of being submissive and beta.
Need help to get into the flow of life! Thanks and waiting for the $25 gift certificate!
BTW, I use CK One, CK one summer and Armani Mania. Can I mix with these perfumes without altering the original scent?
Actually, your instincts are correct! I would say A314 all the way. I cannot say I’ve seen much negative reaction except in the sense of jealousy. The B spray is the easiest to dose. 2 sprays equal not quite two oil drops. But, if you’re shipping to India, consider customs and holidays observed in most of the world. If you want it before New Year’s and to last 3+ months, the oil is it. 4 drops nearly commands reverence. It’s not known for self-aggression; there’s not much -eNone in it, frankly. You’ll need to supply a good helping of your own charm, however, as it’s only truly romantic for alpha women on a quest for male status. Apply your commercial fragrances adjacent to A314 rather than layering. Tell us how you found the forum and your experience with mones, so Mick can help with the GC approval.
I wasn’t clear in that sentence, what I really meant to say was, I read up on people getting into fights/aggressive reactions from other men, which I definitely do not want (atleast till I get back in shape). Some have recommended Instant Shine/Instant Honesty/Openness to tone down the effect.
Am specifically not looking for sexual pheromones (not yet), but something that that restore my self confidence and trust my gut instincts and increase my personal space and boundaries (which has been sexually violated by a psycho aggressive girl).
I would like to give off the aura of “don’t mess with this person” yet “I am not here to fight”
I agree with monesmadedoit that A314 is the best option for you, given your job, age and your intentions with the mones. It should give you a healthy confidence boost and help you restore your control over yourself and your life. When I wear A314 I feel like I can take on any challenge. Anything but submissive with this on, usually people perceive me as too much competition and will move out of my way.
People will not get aggressive with you as said, but some IS or IH added can never hurt. Helps to make it less commanding, and with IH added it’s easier to get deep rapport with the people around you (at work and in private affairs).
Also good to know: I’m caucasian, but while wearing A314 I hooked up with an Indian lady. She kept telling me how good I smelled and liked the way I carried myself
What are your thoughts on IS? A confidence boost would be good, but what is really bothering me is apathy and no desire to do anything. It’s almost like I’ve given up on life cause I don’t see the point.
My view on IS is that it might boost start my day till I get back into action. What do you think?
Also, how do I get the GC? Waiting for that to make my first purchase.
IS will not give you the hard bulletproof alpha confidence - let A314 take care of that.
It’s more like a mood lifter. It gives me a kick in energy, and makes me want to be social and outgoing. Also it makes me smile much more, and as you know people that smile a lot look more approachable. There’s something in it that gives your natural dopamine levels in your brain a boost I’m guessing, but I’m not an expert on human physiology, so don’t pin me down on it.
Dealing with apathy is difficult, I feel you! Mones can give a boost to overcome this, but I think in the long-run it’s better to look where the apathy is coming from and start working on solving those issues. Mones alone will not help you overcome apathy I think.
Want more progress in your career? Pick up a book like The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey.
Want more success with women? Dive into PUA material and start with The Game by Neil Strauss.
Want to be more alpha? Read something like The How To Become an Alpha Male Ebook by John Alexander.
Just some suggestions that might get you inspired.
Start with the regular one I’d say! Better find your correct sweetspot, after that maybe go for 2X which is an economical option if you use high dosages.
The B spray is the easiest to dose. 2 sprays equal not quite two oil drops. But, if you’re shipping to India, consider customs and holidays observed in most of the world. If you want it before New Year’s and to last 3+ months, the oil is it. 4 drops nearly commands reverence. It’s not known for self-aggression; there’s not much -eNone in it, frankly. You’ll need to supply a good helping of your own charm, however, as it’s only truly romantic for alpha women on a quest for male status. Apply your commercial fragrances adjacent to A314 rather than layering. Tell us how you found the forum and your experience with mones, so Mick can help with the GC approval.