Hello! I’m fascinated by pheromones. I’m relatively pretty, and relatively young. But i get hit on soooooooo much. i even had a guy from my class tell me the other day as he walked me to my car “what the hell? I have never seen anyone get hit on this much”. I figure it’s got to be my natural pheromone output. Do you think it’s just high? the problem is, I know that i get LOTS more attention when I’m near or around ovulation (copulins), and right before menstruation. What is that all about (the before menstruation)? I have read about it, but I haven;t seen anyone in the pheromone community discussing what that might be, and it’s obviously pheromonal. Also, when i use primal, sometimes i dont get good reactions, sometimes i do. it’s almsot like i already secrete too much for it to work…what are your thoughts? I have tried PCC with not super good results and now i’m going to see if ew works better. I want to control when and where i get the attention, not have it be at the mercy of my cycle. one more question, what are the non sexual pheromones and how do they work? i get nasty looks from girls, and my husband is really cold and unnafectionate
… any advise would be GREATLY appreciated.
Hi there Abqbelly. It’s possible that you have a higher copulin production, or maybe a production of some obscure, esoteric pheros. It’s interesting that a guy made the observation too so you got a good, second opinion. Don’t know about the just-before-menstruation phenomenon but it is an interesting question… curious about that myself now.
And then, for your “baseline” level of getting hit on more than your female peers: there are billions of other factors to consider, none of us really test pheros in a lab or in a social vacuum here, so there are other variables we juggle all the time to try and work out how things are going. Like… your body language… now that might be appealing. You may smile 10% more than the average girl in your social circle or have a generally sunnier disposition. Things like that.
Well, the non-sexual pheromones are “communication pheromones” like the androstenols. But even they could, in certain contexts, make one appear sexier, just because enhanced, more fun or deeper conversation and rapport with someone of the opposite sex might get someone’s thoughts headed in that direction.
This is a sticky, it’s from the men’s forum but it does explain some of the unisex, non-sexual pheromones:
I see this is your first post - if you make a thread in the Introduction - New Users forum you can get a $25 Androtics gift certificate. Also if you repost your questions there, cos more people will see it, maybe some women can shed light on the phenomenon of increased attention at certain stages of your cycle.
thanks! you may be right, but im not usualy smiling when i get ‘hit’ on, or talking to anyone. its bizarre. and he’s nowhere near the first perso who has pointed this phenominon out to me. but i dont seem to make people want to love me, only screw me. it’s sad ![]()
i really appreciate your responce to my question.
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Hello! I’m fascinated by pheromones. I’m relatively pretty, and relatively young. But i get hit on soooooooo much. i even had a guy from my class tell me the other day as he walked me to my car “what the hell? I have never seen anyone get hit on this much”. I figure it’s got to be my natural pheromone output. Do you think it’s just high? the problem is, I know that i get LOTS more attention when I’m near or around ovulation (copulins), and right before menstruation. What is that all about (the before menstruation)? I have read about it, but I haven;t seen anyone in the pheromone community discussing what that might be, and it’s obviously pheromonal. Also, when i use primal, sometimes i dont get good reactions, sometimes i do. it’s almsot like i already secrete too much for it to work…what are your thoughts? I have tried PCC with not super good results and now i’m going to see if ew works better. I want to control when and where i get the attention, not have it be at the mercy of my cycle. one more question, what are the non sexual pheromones and how do they work? i get nasty looks from girls, and my husband is really cold and unnafectionate
… any advise would be GREATLY appreciated.
I can’t really advise you on some of the female products - sorry.
I do know I have read a lot about women getting a lot of attention around their ovulation - not so sure about the other.
I am also sorry to hear about the situation with the husband. But maybe some good pheros with some good communication might help. I have a thread in my signature block for married guys - not sure how much it might pertain to the ladies but you are welcome to read it.
The social products can be used by onyone at any time:
IO - the alpha nols help generate a lot of general conversation. Sometimes the emphasis is on a lot.
IShine - helps others feel happy to be around you and may have the same self-effect
IH - helps generate feelings of connection and hence often deep conversation where people will open up and discuss … things they might not have without it.
Based on that I would think maybe some IShine and some IH might help open some lines of communication with hubby to help the two of you figure out what the problem is …
I’d also suggest MX274 because it promotes feelings of empathy and goodwill. But it does tend to lower passion, at least for me and my husband, because we end up so content with each other… as is.
I’ve read posts here where some men claim P74 (main ingredient in MX274) lowers their game… prolly for the same reason.
I think most women feel more sexy just before and during ovulation and just before menstruation. That is the effect of high levels of sex hormones in your system. And feeling sexy is a huge attractant all on its own. Remember that attraction is 10% pheromones, 90% attitude. ![]()
Copulins are produced naturally in a woman’s vagina only in the presence of semen. There are tons of articles available on the web about this pheromone.
Wearing EW when you are already getting too many hits prolly isn’t a good idea. Instead you might want to up your game a little with MX134 or TAL. That might make you seem a tad less available for hitting upon.
Diane