I can’t really advise you on some of the female products - sorry.
I do know I have read a lot about women getting a lot of attention around their ovulation - not so sure about the other.
I am also sorry to hear about the situation with the husband. But maybe some good pheros with some good communication might help. I have a thread in my signature block for married guys - not sure how much it might pertain to the ladies but you are welcome to read it.
The social products can be used by onyone at any time:
IO - the alpha nols help generate a lot of general conversation. Sometimes the emphasis is on a lot.
IShine - helps others feel happy to be around you and may have the same self-effect
IH - helps generate feelings of connection and hence often deep conversation where people will open up and discuss … things they might not have without it.
Based on that I would think maybe some IShine and some IH might help open some lines of communication with hubby to help the two of you figure out what the problem is …