Hello all,
My name is Michelle and I stumbled upon a reference to Androtics while helping a friend put together a project at my university. I am 39, single (well committed but not sure I ever need to marry again), and have two amazing daughters that are growing like kudzo. We live in the Texas hill country and love being residents of the water sports capital of Texas. I manage an engineering firm and am working on my Master’s degree in Rhetoric/Composition.
I am interested in experimenting with pheromones for two reasons:
(1) I am very confident and outgoing, which makes it easy for me to settle into any group and meet people. However, I have heard many times from people I have dated that they were intimidated or nervous when they met me and were surprised when they came to know me and found that I am as warm and snuggly as any girl has a right to be.
While this would not normally be an issue, I find that the men who do approach me are often … hmm well submissive and are attracted to my personality. I prefer a strong protective alpha male any day of the week. I am the strong link all day at the office, in my courses, and raising my girls. The last thing I want in my mate is to need to be the strong one with him all the time too. Though I don’t have a single problem with ripping his clothes off and using him to my heart’s content when the mood occurs.
To that end, I was thinking that IS/B might help temper the vibe I put off to reflect my private side more accurately and ordered a to go bottle to see. (If I took IS/A I fear they would just drop and kneel on contact - while fun and amusing at times, I am weary of these types.) My SO is plenty Alpha but when we were discussing the impact of horomones, pheromones, and brain chemistry in relationships we agreed it would be an interesting experiment that could only be fun either way it worked out.
The other reason we decided to experiment is that we both are strong believers in the idea that whatever energy/vibe you put off directly impacts what energy/vibes you receive back. If you are pissed when you wake up and are rude to everyone – people will return the favor and make your day worse.
Thus we were REALLY curious to see if using a pheromone with an opposite purpose would change up your responses. I was not sure what to try to play with this concept but ordered a to go IO to start with. We each plan to wear it the next time a truly bad mood arises and see what, if any, impact it has on our interactions with others.
If anyone has any suggestions for other products we may try for these two experiments, I would be greatly interested. I am also trying to remember what product I saw a post on… it mentioned that I should be careful in its use because it could cause your manly man to be much rougher than normal in the bedroom (well or in our case, the living room, garage, bushes - whereever). Alpha or not my SO does fear hurting me and I prefer he let go of his self control from time to time and show me everything, so this pheromone sounds like a MUST have – whatever it was.
I tried to read enough posts before writing in myself to use the correct abbreviations, etc. Hope I have not missed any and cluttered the screen more than neccessary.
Namaste,
Michelle