This site is like stepping into uncharted territory. Some really interesting possibilities here.
I’m looking to tap into pheromones to help with my love life and career. I’m a 40ish single woman who resides in the Midwest. My personality tends to be soft and gentle, reticent.
I’ve spent a looong time in school, which meant shushing guys to the sideline. Now that my career is established and I’ve reached midlife, I’d love to find someone special. I’m seeking a way to draw men towards me. That is the most difficult part, because of my introverted personality and because the pool of eligible men is smaller now.
I also think pheromones could enhance my professional life. I have a great job in science. I am well trained and dedicated, but I lack the confidence that I need to attain the best opportunities and to move up within the organization. I am just not able to “sell” myself. I’d like be able to speak up more and take a leadership role, instead of being the reliable “mule” who gets the work done.
I have read that individuals have a tendency to repeat our last successful behavior. I think pheromones could help me establish a new behavior pattern, which I would repeat (becoming easier each time) until it became a habit. And I become a new person!
Going into this, I think pheromones could be life changing for me. I would be ever so grateful if those with experience would share product recommendations that would help me meet my goals.
Glad to see you here and congratulations on what you have done so far.
Pheromones certainly can help you in life but that is the key concept - the help - they grease the skids so to speak. Try reading the thread in my signature block about what pheros can and cannot do to get a realistic expectation of what you can accomplish.
Pheros can help in a whole range of social areas - work, general social and even romance.
General social products include IO which can help get those general conversations rolling (might be good in your case if you are a little shy), IShine which can help the people around you feel happy to be near you, and IH (one of my favorites) which help people feel connected to you and really open up.
For work the ladies mix right now seems to be MX 300 - gives you a strong feel of authority.
for romance if you are the quiet type I would rcommend IS/b.
But as always, I defer to one of the ladies who should be by soon.
For attraction, try Instant Sexiness. It can make men feel you are more attractive and sexier. There are 2 versions of IS. IS A is for more dominant and tougher vibe. IS B is for more feminine and softer vibe.
You can also try IO. It can make men want to talk to you more. You will enjoy more conversations with men.
For career, try MX300. It can make people including your superior feel you are more capable, trusted and respected.
You’ve gotten some great advice from the guys. Though you should also consider Instant Shine, a positive uplifting phero blend that will boost your mood and the moods of those around you, and make others want to be around you more.
Instant Sexiness/b would probably be best for you, as it will enhance and make your soft feminine personality sexy and more attractive. Instant Sexiness/a will give you more of a strong sexy vibe, which can be nice as well. Though from my experience, its better not to try to be something you’re really not.
My bad, sunflower. You already received some excellent advice. MX300 will help you receive that respect you deserve in the workplace and in other professional aspects.
I hope to see you around the women section posting your results and experiencing the fullness of this forum.
