Hey guys. Just a little question i have on the pheromone attraction theory. If you are wearing pheromones - instead of turning on women to you specifically - won’t they simply be attracted and turned on in general? as in what makes them attracted to you alone? if a girl is in the proximity with her boyfriend, won’t she just get turned on and get more attracted to him instead?
I think it’s like what steveo said, you have like circle around you and when people get out of it and come back, they will notice that thing about you.
if the pheromone signiture you wear screams loud and proud lol and you are congruent with that signiture, i have faith they will imediately put it together.
i wear mixes that scream sexy alpha fem and i dont give anyone a chance to steal it.
acyaak ive noticed this with my mates gf she may give me looks like shit u r doin fine etc but she cant do anythin about it due to her bf there ( not that i would anyway ) but yea instead of givin me attention i have noticed they will be a lot more touchy feely to there boyfriend like as if she wanted me to compete with it. Thats what i think anyway
Also something to consider is that by not competing you are displaying higher value, which in essence furthers the affects of your pheromone signature.
I disagree! If you were to hit on your friends GF, while your friend is present you would be displaying massive DLV.
I guess I’m picky, but my friends are much more valuable to me than some random girl regardless of how attractive they are. She can think what she wants, but it wouldn’t mean anything to me anyway. She already didn’t meet my standards by DLV towards my friend anyway.
hmmm,
i dont see where i posted that you ought to hit on her, but we see in things where our head is at i guess…
also, i noticed you added “while your friend is present”…
whats the difference? its ok to hit on her if he is NOT there???
you slay me.
other than that, sometimes we meet people for the first time because someone we know is dating them.
it doesnt make you a bad person for thinking they are groovy
worrying if what you are doing displays the wrong thing is a pretty tangled web, a girl will go for the one with less issues anyway.
being yourself usually is the straightest line between 2 points
Being yourself is all I subscribe too! I think that it stands evident as far as my posts go. I am who I am and you either like it or you don’t. By being myself that just means I have high values for myself and people I associate with, which means that you don’t go after your friends girlfriend.
I guess it’s the same thing with my pink and sparkly friend I have talked about before. I respect her and myself enough that the times I have worn pheromones around her (an admitted mistake) even though she attempted to escalate I refused.
as a matter of fact, i really wish you would outline where i said hit on your friends gal !
i havent heard one person say it feels natural to analyze whether moves are DLV or not
so ,if in being yourself means that you are showing interest in someone as a person big deal. thats really what gals subscribe to.
but if your showing interest in screwing them, thats just being a doggy.
your the “gross” friend, because you would do that to your buddy.
i dont have friends that would hit on my ex; if they did, its up to my ex to respond.
if i have to say or do anything, he was never mine.
and THAT doesnt make him evil.
it doesnt make my friend evil,either. cant help how you feel.
you CAN help who you screw
i actually had that situation come up once.
the outcome was what brought me to where i am today on this topic