So lets say I’ve been wearing mones around a co-worker for sometime and have been getting pretty positive responses from her not necessarily flat out fuck me vibes but positive vibes. When do you guys know when it’s the right time to make a move based on her reactions?
I mostly been wearing IG and P96 the last week or 2 I think I have used p93 in that mix every now and then. SHould I switch it up and add some None and see how she reacts to that before I finally decide to close?
Funny you mention this. I’m going through a similar scenario. Got a coworker who I’ve been getting hits from with my mix. After a while of a little interaction and flirting I found some good opportunities to let our bodies ‘brush’ when near or passing each other, which led to more significant touching. Long story short I just got word through the grapevine that she wants me to give it to her so now she’s been more open about it. I mean it’s pretty much a done deal.
With all that being said, I would say go with your gut. For the longest time I was getting hits like crazy but she never made a move and some hits could have been just friendliness so I didn’t know when to make a move. I figured I’d start with some light brushing and touching and slowly increase to see her comfort level. We got to the point of nearly dry humping. That’s what my gut told me to do at the time.
Most of the time if I feel I want to tap something I’ll wear a very specific mix and display very specific behavior and basically women throw themselves at me.
Which is technically what she did.. but it’s different at the workplace.
Personally I would be less interested in looking for ‘f*** me vibes’ and more concerned about building a ‘f*** me’ Mix. If you can build a mix that gets chicks all horny with you all you need to do is find a way to get her to yourself away from work (in a friendly way) and she’ll be throwing herself at you. That’s what I do. Like just hanging out having drinks after work or something.
To answer your other question, yes -none is your friend here, as long as the dosage isn’t offensive.
Don’t switch it up if it’s working.
Yes -none is your friend here just don’t wear an offensive dosage.
If you want to find out if she’s ready, throw in some light kino with her and increase it over time and see how comfortable she is with you. If you feel like she’s comfortable with your bodies touching she’ll be turned on too and you’re in the door. Close the deal.
As well as taking Jdub’s advice, you should maybe be looking to try and take this out of the workplace and into a more relaxed/sociable environment where she may less inhibited and more willing to respond to a sexual signature - women in particular can be very funny about how they might be seen if they act on attraction at work and often hold-back a lot more than they would in other environments.
It also protects you to a very great degree against complaints/disciplinaries if you are reading her wrong and she isn’t interested.
Don’t get your honey where you make your money.
Don’t dip your pen into the company’s inkwell.
Don’t shit where you eat.
This person in question is a temporary employee she won’t be their after a month or two. I’m not worried about that.
Just curious…
What are things that can go wrong with said venture..?
Um…Lose your job. Harassment lawsuit.
But do as you will.
I WHOLE-HEARTEDLY agree with wotan.
“Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..”
Say the ‘hot’ co-worker turns out to be a bona fide bunny boiler. How much fun will coming in for work be then?
A MILLION things can go wrong, but people keep doing it because for 95% of the population, the work place is their main source of sex.
Still only proves that 95% of the population are very bad at getting laid without fucking it up thoroughly for themselves in the process.. 
Why I tend to agree with the others, really it is up to you what you would like to do. I mean there are success stories to about people meeting at work as well. I don’t know if you are at a place where this is your career job or not. Just keep all of it in mind and at the end of the day things are up to you.
I responded to your PM before I read this and it makes sense now and I would keep the IG/P96 setup. How many sprays of the IG are you using?
I would keep this setup and if anything maybe dial the IG to 1 spray if you are using 2 sprays and try using 1 spray of your Ammo along with your P96 and go from here.
But the real key is to get her outside of work to get to where you want.