nbully posted something that brought me to a new idea about the whole OD concept. as some of you may know already, I’m quite fascinated with the OD experience and what it means, how it happens, etc.
Today may have well been an OD. i got the ‘disgusted looks’ from far away, etc. but I didn’t care about them. I didn’t pay much attention even though all signs, such as the total intimidation of coworkers and strangers, all pointed to an OD.
still, i got on with my day and tried to forget that I was even wearing 'mones. which, i didn’t even put any on today, it was just residue from lots of ammunition this past week.
the thing is, nbully asked if OD is the effect of what happens to the phero-user. I think so. because i feel like the times that i have “OD’d” are often times that i can’t handle to be congruent with the strong phero signature I’m giving off.
in other words, today, I took the lead in most situations and tried my best to be congruent with it. i felt a lot less hostility and much more respect / friendliness than before.
how do you guys know if you have OD’d or not, if you just go out and forget about the pheromones?
at this point, I think the “OD” is more about the user, and not everyone else. I don’t think the phero smell can be detected as easily as some say. when I see disgusted looks, I think it is that they are becoming suddenly overcome with anger / confusion, not a horrid smell. because a smell can’t travel that far, and it’s just not logical.
so, i think if you can be congruent with the signature you put out, there is no such thing as an OD. if you put out an aggressive vibe and try to rush through the day without engaging people that much (whether it’s lack of time or you’re just tired), you’ll come off awkward or you’ll think you OD’d, and then your subsequent reactions will emphasize that whole incongruence.
Another thing is something that brozie mentioned in the theory forum. My sense of smell also (like his) becomes super strong when i’m wearing 'mones, maybe in part because i’m trying to see if i smell or not. but i can literally smell food from 1/2 a mile away, and it makes me feel like some ferocious caveman. i think the ‘smell’ that people sense is not my pheromone but actually it’s their sense of smell also heightening when i’m around so they can suddenly smell all these different things. either that, or the whole nose rubbing thing is a subconcious body language sign that i am not yet familiar with, that probably signals discomfort. because i see people touching their noses a lot, for example today, but people were still gathering around me, and telling me all sorts of jokes and I laughed so much today it was insane.
so anyway, that’s my take on the whole OD thing. OD doesn’t really make sense if you know how to handle it.