How to get LAID

[ps86651]

@cRome

PS86651, Great job thinking out of the box. Even though I have lots of money, I really don’t think that’s the way I want to spend it. Wouldn’t that mean I would need an escort every single time I go out?

Not at all…maybe 1 or 2 times. That’s it.

This method will clearly not be encouraged by other people (who will insist that you read books on how to pick up women, PUA, etc. All of these things are gimmicks - insanely hot girls that I know, who have read these books, all say so.). For god’s sake its 2 human beings interacting, not an exam!

Anyways, I had a somewhat similar situation to you several years back. I spent a couple of sessions with an ultra high-class escort. Let me tell you, it worked wonders in all aspects of my life (from personality and confidence to having sexual relations and knowing how / where to please a woman).

Making love to an unbelievably beautiful woman (and I mean unbelievably beautiful) is an experience you’ll never forget. Trust me. You know, I didn’t get it right at all with my first time! I was incredibly nervous and constantly thinking about my technique etc.. She picked up on it and put me at ease straight away - she taught me many things about women / love / sex etc. that I’ll be forever grateful for. It’s not all about getting hard and going in…there’s so much more to it. I didn’t know that before I met her and now I know so much more.

People often confuse escorts with prostitutes. They are similar, but it’s like comparing a standard car with a Bentley or Aston Martin. Both take you from point A to point B, but the journey is so very very different.

Good luck.

[cRome]

How do you even strike up a conversation like that…?

Hey “escort” will you show me how to pick up women?

That just sounds ridiculous to me.

[catlord17]

The key to getting laid is simple. Make her want it more than you do. Beyond that, you need self mastery and persistence. You also need to make sure she knows she can trust you. Self mastery brings genuine self confidence. It isn’t achieved by running after women first and trying to improve yourself second. It’s achieved by improving yourself, for yourself, and letting the women fall away until you have. Once you have, attracting women will be natural, because you will naturally be what they are looking for.

When I say improving yourself, and talk about self mastery, I am talking about dumping guilt, shame, fear, regret, doubts and self loathing. I am talking about achieving genuine self confidence, self reliance, self respect, self esteem, and self worth. Such a man doesn’t really care what others think, because he has formed his own opinion, and that’s what matters to him. So if a woman isn’t interested - who cares?

This man doesn’t need women. And ironically, that is what makes him a prize to them. He is his own man, and can be perfectly happy alone or with a woman, and because that is true, he will attract healthy women of value. He doesn’t need her to validate him, he is self validating. He doesn’t need her to love him, he takes care of his emotional needs. He doesn’t need her for sex, because there are a dozen more where she came from. And all this adds up to a man who is very attractive to women, because he is so rare and so much what she is looking for. She wants the man who is a man, not a boy in a man’s body.

You don’t need to be stunningly good looking, or a millionaire, or ride a motorcycle, be a bad boy, wear pheromones, be a pickup artist. These things can certainly help with some types of women, or in certain circumstances. But it’s the man himself she’s looking at - and looking for - if she’s worth keeping.

I suggest trying to set a series of goals for yourself, things to do and accomplish, that will produce tangible results and give you a series of successes that you can build your self esteem and self confidence based on. There are also mind programming techniques you can use, but do your research on those before you use them. Not everyone out there selling hypnosis, NLP or subliminals actually knows what they’re doing when they build them.

[okyoureabeast]

Read this book

The%20Book%20of%20Pook.pdf

The 15 lessons are a great basis for building a framework of learning how to flirt with women.

When I read it, most of it I already understood but it filled in some significant pit falls in my own mind.

Check it out.

[Jabez]

All this is good advice,but the biggest thing by far is confidence, you can be abercrombie model like and have girls eyeing you from miles away, but if you are shy or introverted and are not confident the girl will lose interest and as far as PUA stuff goes the Majority of it is a Croc of shit, Mystery or Neil Strauss is decent. I am fortunate that all my friends are good with girls my dad himself was just a natural lady killer, like a poor version of Brad Pitt, so everything I know I learned from observation and from lessons with my Dad, it isn’t untill lately that I divulged into the world that is known as PUA, of all the stuff I have read there are a Top 4 that are right on Par with what all my friends and my dad taught, Bobby Rio,David Deangelo,Christian Hudson, and Race de Priest they all have stuff that focuses on becoming a real person and they don’t use gimmicks or any of that shit. But Body language is also important, make sure you stand up straight man. Other then that you should have no problem, I mean damn if I had the money I would be even better with girls, but I am a broke ass college kid haha! Its just about being the best version of yourself as Radman says

[JohnBeGoode]

@Whitehall

Being a complete “man-in-full,” is the cornerstone in my opinion. You need to feel that in your gut and believe in yourself. Then be willing and able to present that confidence in one’s self to the world. Understanding the difference between pleasure and satisfaction is a first step.

The PUA stuff delves into the manipulative (aka leadership) techniques that have some applicability, much like a dog catcher needs to understand canine psychology to catch dogs. However tactically useful, it is a bit shallow.

A good understanding of the evolutionary biology behind gender roles and interests will make one more accepting of what you want to do and how women play their game according to their interests. A good site for that is:

Chateau Heartiste

A great book I often recommend is “Sperm Wars.”

No matter how frustrating women can be, it helps to respect that they have their interests which neither you nor they will change. Find where your interests and any specific woman’s interest intersect and you’ll find and give satisfaction.

Thanks for that link! also for the content of your last paragraph.

[Unique]

@Apu

Erm. All the other guys that posted advice are much more experienced than me so take my views with a pinch of salt but honestly, if you are 28 years old, very athletic and financially successful do you seriously even need pheromones?

To me it just sounds like you just don’t know how to escalate. With all due respect, you need better game, in your case I would recommending reading some PUA literature and of course practicing. This is just my humble opinion however.

I just don’t see how pheromones are going to help you. If you are 28 and very athletic, you should already be producing an abundance of -none and if you are financially successful you should appear to be high status anyway so I don’t see how Ammo, TUTH or even A314 are going to help you. Wearing any of these is going to make you even more intimidating to boot.

Also, you said that you were okay at breaking the ice and are already considered a nice guy, so that pretty much cuts out Instant Shine, IO, IH and IG.

Guys probably don’t like you staring at their girls because they consider you a viable threat. I notice this as well when I wear A314, when I am with couples, the guy usually becomes hell of a lot more defensive. Think about it. If a loser started hitting on your girl, would you care? No, because he doesn’t have a chance.

I am not saying that you shouldn’t use pheromones, you definitely should. I am just saying that pheromones are probably not the most effective solution.

Where do you live anyway? Rome?

Lol PUA? That stuff is a sham bro.

Use some mones mate, they say its like 90% you and 10% mones but its more like 70% mones

Seriously splash and smash

Just be yourself

[mikotorocks714]

I can’t believe this doesn’t have a thank you, this is so true. This is the only way to seek women who will actually want YOU for YOU in the long run. Sure, some women will be attracted to a handsome man. However, if that handsome man doesn’t have THESE qualities he then (in time) just becomes something of “use” and NOT something of valuable worth to the woman.

@catlord17

The key to getting laid is simple. Make her want it more than you do. Beyond that, you need self mastery and persistence. You also need to make sure she knows she can trust you. Self mastery brings genuine self confidence. It isn’t achieved by running after women first and trying to improve yourself second. It’s achieved by improving yourself, for yourself, and letting the women fall away until you have. Once you have, attracting women will be natural, because you will naturally be what they are looking for.

When I say improving yourself, and talk about self mastery, I am talking about dumping guilt, shame, fear, regret, doubts and self loathing. I am talking about achieving genuine self confidence, self reliance, self respect, self esteem, and self worth. Such a man doesn’t really care what others think, because he has formed his own opinion, and that’s what matters to him. So if a woman isn’t interested - who cares?

This man doesn’t need women. And ironically, that is what makes him a prize to them. He is his own man, and can be perfectly happy alone or with a woman, and because that is true, he will attract healthy women of value. He doesn’t need her to validate him, he is self validating. He doesn’t need her to love him, he takes care of his emotional needs. He doesn’t need her for sex, because there are a dozen more where she came from. And all this adds up to a man who is very attractive to women, because he is so rare and so much what she is looking for. She wants the man who is a man, not a boy in a man’s body.

You don’t need to be stunningly good looking, or a millionaire, or ride a motorcycle, be a bad boy, wear pheromones, be a pickup artist. These things can certainly help with some types of women, or in certain circumstances. But it’s the man himself she’s looking at - and looking for - if she’s worth keeping.

I suggest trying to set a series of goals for yourself, things to do and accomplish, that will produce tangible results and give you a series of successes that you can build your self esteem and self confidence based on. There are also mind programming techniques you can use, but do your research on those before you use them. Not everyone out there selling hypnosis, NLP or subliminals actually knows what they’re doing when they build them.

[dsouza]

I find that people who say Mystery is not a rich man didn’t read mystery method well enough because he clearly explains the important of wealth in his system of development.

Also he’s like 6’6" I think! He is very tall.. Anyways what works for him may not work for regular dudes and memorizing lines just make one come of as lame if they’re not natural actors.

And who says A314 can’t be worn at night? this is utter nonsense.. the best hits I’ve had with A314 HAVE BEEN AT NIGHT…

I don’t act like a donald trump with it on.. I act like a MASCULINE INTERESTING AND SEXY man with it on.

Interestingly enough I find ammo doesn’t work as good for me… congruency? if not why not?

[romancetoday]

I feel a little odd here. A sociable, wealthy, and young man with athletic body really doesn’t need any help on getting or attracting woman. All he needs to do is to expose himself. cRome, the success in your job also indicates your intelligence. I’m very surprise if you even need any advice or pheromones to get woman. If a man like you can’t get a woman, who can?

[s_t_f]

@catlord17

The key to getting laid is simple. Make her want it more than you do. Beyond that, you need self mastery and persistence. You also need to make sure she knows she can trust you. Self mastery brings genuine self confidence. It isn’t achieved by running after women first and trying to improve yourself second. It’s achieved by improving yourself, for yourself, and letting the women fall away until you have. Once you have, attracting women will be natural, because you will naturally be what they are looking for.

When I say improving yourself, and talk about self mastery, I am talking about dumping guilt, shame, fear, regret, doubts and self loathing. I am talking about achieving genuine self confidence, self reliance, self respect, self esteem, and self worth. Such a man doesn’t really care what others think, because he has formed his own opinion, and that’s what matters to him. So if a woman isn’t interested - who cares?

This man doesn’t need women. And ironically, that is what makes him a prize to them. He is his own man, and can be perfectly happy alone or with a woman, and because that is true, he will attract healthy women of value. He doesn’t need her to validate him, he is self validating. He doesn’t need her to love him, he takes care of his emotional needs. He doesn’t need her for sex, because there are a dozen more where she came from. And all this adds up to a man who is very attractive to women, because he is so rare and so much what she is looking for. She wants the man who is a man, not a boy in a man’s body.

You don’t need to be stunningly good looking, or a millionaire, or ride a motorcycle, be a bad boy, wear pheromones, be a pickup artist. These things can certainly help with some types of women, or in certain circumstances. But it’s the man himself she’s looking at - and looking for - if she’s worth keeping.

I suggest trying to set a series of goals for yourself, things to do and accomplish, that will produce tangible results and give you a series of successes that you can build your self esteem and self confidence based on. There are also mind programming techniques you can use, but do your research on those before you use them. Not everyone out there selling hypnosis, NLP or subliminals actually knows what they’re doing when they build them.

This is very true!!! Finding self validation is key. I will recomend a book that I think covers this pretty well. “how to succeed with women” by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It doesn’t seem like pua stuff, but more or less how to develope yourself in a self respecting, self confidence way while learning what to look for with women. I use it as a reference when I having some slumps or not having success with the women! Also I would recomend a book “The Secret” this is a self help book that talks about the secret to gettign what you want from life in any area. It teaches you how to create belief in yourself and this world. The Secret is the main reason I am not in pain over my most recent ex anymore. Catlord17 is absolutely correct.