Hello.Welcome aboard. 
Glad you found this forum cause here you can learn alot about pheromones.
First you say that you are verry outspoken person and can maintain a good conversation, but not always can start one.Well sometimes starting a conversation with people you don’t know well is hard.Even if you try to talk to such people they too think that they do not know you and the conversations does not go smoothly.For opening people to talk to you and that way making new aqcuaintances I will recommend you my fevourite social product - cttm2.It’s kind of a rough mix of the main ingredients of IO and IH ( alpha and beta androstenol).I had great experiences with it witch you can check out in my cttm2 impressions ( the link is in my signature).
Second you say u’re interrested in the sexual pheromones as well.That case you should consider some androstenone products as tuth (this one is mainly androstenone and is more rough and not socially buffered) or ammo ( witch has some additional pheros in it witch make the effect not so blatantly sexual).I kind of view it like tuth is good for making mixes while ammo is better as even standalone product.Androstenone is powerfull pheromone though so when appling some androstenone product - start with one to two sprays as not to overdose and see what happens.If you do not get suficient results - up the dose but carefully because androstenone overdose will scare women away instead of draging them to you.
All pheromone mixes can benefit from adding some IS witch makes you and people around you in a good mood witch is good in both just conversation of when you try to hook up with a girl.
As for projecting a laid back, confident , alpha male vibe - you should consider a314 witch can be used in every situation - from work to clubbing and picking up girls.
Here is a chart witch can explain you the results of mixing different pheromone products and the effects of that.
Have fun with the pheros and wish you good luck. 