My name is Thomas and I am a 30 year old Eastern Indian male from Dallas, TX. I have been married for 8 years and currently do not have any children (yet).
I was just doing a little web surfing a few weeks ago and stumbled across this website and the store site. I found this stuff incredibly fascinating and I couldn’t wait to try it out. I went ahead and purchased the A314, along with a travel size of Instant Shine and TUTH. I received a free travel size version of Instant Jerk also (of all the ones they could’ve included, why??? 
). I can be a little impulsive when it comes to purchases because I tend to talk myself out of things, so I purchased before I thoroughly read through the forums. My purchase might have been a little different if I read a little more first.
I didn’t intend to tell my wife, but rather, just test it out to see if she noticed a difference. Unfortunately, she was home when the shipment arrived so I couldn’t keep it from her. She was amused and happy for me that I took initiative to try it out. Over the past week, I have been trying a combo of 2 drops of A314 along with two sprays of IS. The very first day, my wife and I went to breakfast at Cracker Barrel. As we were getting ready to leave, I stood by the fire while my wife was gathering her things from our table. An older (late 40’s) lady that worked there came up to me and started telling me about how much trouble she was having in keeping the fire going. The funny part was how close to me she was when she was talking to me. Her boob was literally pressed against my arm but I acted normal and carried on a small conversation with her and proceeded to leave. Now, one thing you have to know about me is that I am generally not an approachable person. Once people get to know me, I have a pretty disarming personality, but to a stranger, I have more a of a “don’t bother me” look. I certainly think I give off a “touch me not” kind of vibe (growing up, my family was generally not physically affectionate, but that’s a whole different story). And that particular day, I hadn’t shaved either so I probably looked more like a terrorist who also didn’t want to be bothered. I turned to my wife and said, “Did you see that??” and she thought about it for a second and said, “OMG, your pheromones!” She hadn’t put it together before I had said anything, but she told me that when she saw this lady talking to me, she thought it was so weird how the lady completely invaded my personal space. From a distance, it looked like she had known me for years. She also said she felt a little disrespected that this woman did that while she was standing right there. In the 8 years we have been married, this type of thing has never happened before. We were both very amused.
I wish the effects were as dramatic since then, but I haven’t noticed anything too significant. I wear the same combination to work and have recently increased to 3 drops of A314. I did have one of my gay co-workers stop by my office and say, “Damn, you are fine! I wish I could take you to [the gay bar] and show you off!” We are also friends so his statement wasn’t threatening to me or anything, but he has never made a statement like that beyond “you look nice today”. I think he also goes for the powerful, alpha male type (he loves Jason Statham and goes on and on and on about him) so maybe the A314 was having an effect on him.
I am a manager in IT and have a team of 5 individuals that report to me directly. I think people generally respect me, but I want more of the “alpha male” vibe where people naturally want me to be in charge, and I’m not sure if I’m getting that. I’m doing my best to own it, but I’m sure I’m just not giving it enough time. Just to offer a little more about my personality, I used to be a really shy person growing up, but I think I’m more outgoing now. I don’t always have the easiest time making conversation unless I “click” with a person, in which case, conversation comes very naturally. If I have to force it, I feel awkward and I think I am a little fidgety, so I come across as being uncomfortable. I am the type of person that happily defers leadership to the most qualified individual in a group, based on a given situation/circumstance. By the same token, I take a leadership role when I feel I am that person. I do believe I am very fair and accurate when I make those assessments and don’t always feel I am necessarily the best to lead. I am good at reading people. I am not a good public speaker, but have gotten much better since taking my management role. I don’t like to be the center of attention unless I am really comfortable with the people I am with. I tend to be quiet if I am around people I don’t know very well. I think people see me as being intelligent, a good listener, a little cerebral, level-headed, calm/rational, trustworthy, somewhat quiet, and generally, just a really nice guy. What I want is to be more assertive and authoritative. People tend to take advantage of my kindness. Perhaps I need a different combo to enhance or complement the A314 more… I am really interested in Ammo and Instant Gentleman based on what I have read about it.
I am a little disappointed that nothing seems to have any effect on my wife. I tried a combo of the A314 along with a couple of sprays of TUTH one evening and I didn’t notice any difference in her. To be fair, we both have a healthy drive and I am completely satisfied with our sex life. Maybe I just naturally turn her on and mones just aren’t necessary 
. I do want to try something different to see if I can have an effect on her.
Well, that’s my story and sums up my initial experiences. I really love the forum and the contributors here seem like intelligent, kind and thoughtful individuals…definitely my kind of crowd. It’s hard to find this type of a group online these days. I do think there is something to this and I am eager to experiment more (the gift certificate will help that! 
). I gladly welcome any suggestions.
to you my friend, when that older lady’s was all up on you in your chest like that. 
Hey, bro all you could do, was play it off.