Last week I bought my H some 314. Something weird is happening. He does not believe it works.
We were at an open house, and guys that would not usually talk to him were coming over to shake his hand.
Plus, I am feeling different about him. Normally he is a total nuisance. His voice - fingers on a chalkboard.
Now I feel like I am getting a crush on my own man. He seems more smooth. WTF? Like suddenly he is cool and not a dork. I thought he was not wearing the A314 anymore. Then he tells me that he has been wearing it all week..
He looked cuter (already very good-looking, which people comment on all the time), but with a mysterious hard-edge air.
Hard to explain.
What is happening? Man if this stuff can turn me around, I was ready to call it quits - you guys better grab your credit cards! Start ordering!
wow, that’s quite interesting. I’m curious to know why you’d have a guy whose voice is like nails on a chalkboard as your H. But hey, whatever floats your boat.
Thanks for taking to the time to share that with us. We don’t often get before/after perspectives, especially in situations where both parties know pheros are in use.
I’ve been having a new perspective on pheromones lately, now that a co-worker is wearing them around me. I know he’s wearing Instant Honesty, I know how much of it, and I know what it does. But I still find myself acting how IH makes people wanna act, and I feel great being that way.
Great report… a rare report it seems. Most reports are from the users perspective and thier perceived results ranging from “man the chicks were just all over me” to " I think it was working" It is extremely refreshing to hear from an observer with actual descriptive report… wow…
Try some more stuff on him and report back!
I actually have been wearing A314 alot over the past month or so and v
besides my “perceived” results which seem to be very positive, I notice some significant changes in way my SO acts towards me. She seems more attracted in a way. She does not no I am wearing phereo btw. Anyhow reps to you..
You really should get him some Turn Up the Heat and Instant Female Magic to wear when you’re around (under no circumstances should you allow him to wear it outside the home…you’ve been warned).
The response I get from women using these three is rather nice. And I can totally see how a woman would be very pleased spending time home alone with her husband if he was wearing that. Instant Honesty might be helpful too. Some couples have trouble…communicating. I find that people communicate around me too MUCH when I have Instant Honesty and Instant Openness on combined.
Thanks for your input everyone. I posted here on the men’s sided so I could find out what combos he can use. He will not be posting here - I hope, since I have divulged TMI to y’all already.
Anyway. We have known each other for 16 years - and spent almost every day together since, either as co-workers or partners. (Hence the fingers on the chalkboard comment), when you have been apart only a few days in that amount of time, things tend to grate on ones nerves.
So you would think that we would be impervious to the changes in our signatures, especially since we know we are both using.
He works for a very well-known company - kinda like IBM. His boss is a huge ALPHA ALPHA “do it NOW of fuck off” kinda guy. Very tense.
Yesterday, H said that the boss came over to his desk to ask for the TPS report, sat down, and worked with him on it. He kept apologizing for keeping him late on a Fri. Really unusual behavior.
I said “thats the A314 at work”. He said that is not possible. So I have challenged him to wear it for a week, then go without.
BTW - thanks for the combos. I will have him try this week.
There is NO WAY I would ever let him wear Instant Honesty around me!! LOL… Our situation is too complex and it could get real ugly. I gots skeletons!
I have worn it around a couple of people, and the results were astonishing!!! Mind blowing. Major WTF moments.
Plus I bought the pheros ostensibly for HIM to be more attracted to ME! That sounds bad. In my defense, I am not a dog or fat or anything - our personalities are completely incompatible. Anyway, Dr. Phil. HE has problems communicating - so I shall wear the Instant Honesty around him. Bwahaha!
Umm are you forgetting self effects? If your wearing instant honesty you might be handing him the key to that closet of skeletons inadvertantly.
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Looking forward to your report in a week.. And if you try other Pheros on him, those too. I like your descriptions. They are very helpful, especially when one is trying to be congruent with the new signature we may be throwing off…
Phernoob - thanks for a wonderful report - I like your writing style! Very funny.
It’s really good to hear from the other side how A314 affects a woman.
I use A314 as my work staple -everyday. Instant Shine & Instant Openness are pre-requisites with A314 for me as I don’t want to be seen as too aloof or out of touch. hubby could try that.
Well. As it turns out - he decided not to take a week off! Hmmm, he has been wearing it on the DL. Plus, this am, I caught him red-handed sneaking a spritz of Ammo! Boy, did he look guilty! Do we have a phero addict, or is there a new crop of college interns at his workplace waiting to blow their way out of the mailroom?
Guys. I know I have been using the girl pheros hoping to elicit certain responses, but… I can tell now what he is wearing depending on how I FEEL towards him. I never know what he has on at the time, but when I ask later he tells me. Here is what I can tell you about how it affects my mood:
A314: I FEEL like he is aloof. I want to avoid him., but I dont find him nasty or mean, just unapprochable. Allso, he is not that “goofy akward computer geek guy”. He is smooth, streamlined, the boss.
Ammo: Not sure. Kinda makes him more chatty.
TUTH: I kinda feel like I have a crush on him. Interested without being too sexual. Like a first date feeling. Very “hmmmm?”.
I would LOVE to get the same level of responses from him, but he is always too self-absorbed… If I wore ONLY pheros, he would not notice! Hey, a small consolation, I am getting hit on by tons of other guys. Oh well.
Also I must note that the only time we spend together during the week is in the morning getting ready for work. I have not yet donned any of my mixes, so at that time, I am phero-free.
It is extremely refreshing to hear from an observer with actual descriptive report… wow…
