In spite of my UN, my background is a chemist. Unfortunately, I’m in the dark about phereos and their use. I’m a youngster of 58, 6’4", 225#. Life is meant to laugh and love. I want to get back to those premises. I tend to be a ‘homebody’ and would like to make the best use of limited contact with the fairer sex. I’m gathering questions to ask. I’m sure there will be many. At this point, I don’t even have a clue where to begin? Any help will be more than appreciated!
Hi ComptrGuru!! I’m sure you’ll fit in nicely here in our conglomerated mess of a “family”! LOL!
Chemist, huh??? Hmmm…that could be verrrry useful here!
So, what types of situations DO you have this “limited contact” w/ the fairer sex? Work, church, parties, the grocery store, etc? And, you sound like you’re out-going as far as personality goes but you just don’t physically go out, is that right? And, what are you hoping to accomplish exactly? More female interaction? Long term relationship? One night stands? More love and laughter all around? Those kinds of things will help us give some recommendations and get you started in the right direction.
Do you feel hen pecked yet w/ all those questions???
Hi, welcome to the forum.
River asks excellent questions (as usual! 
), if you would be so kind as to answer them, we can make suggestions for you. That way, you can also qualify for your gift certificate.
Looking forward to your reply. Thanks in advance.
BTW, river hasn’t begun to hen-peck you yet.
Thanks for the welcome, river… Hmmm…my limited contact would include occasional semi-blind dates from internet sites, grocery store type settings, an occasional party (tend to be the same crowds with few that interest me), chance meetings, say wandering through the park or zoo. Work is a non factor. Yup, I consider myself an outgoing, interesting person. I don’t seem to find many avenues for meeting the Ladies. I’m not (never been) into the club/bar scene. I’d love to find a life partner…but I’m in no rush. It would be nice to be able to share, both in and out of the bedroom!
Hen pecked? Naw…just at home! Thanks…
LOL! I’ve been taking lessons from my 5 year old “The Question Master”!!!
Welcome to another older err more mature, ya that’s it more mature San Diegan. I’m a native now living out by Pine Valley. Be glad to answer some questions if ya got em.
Thanks for the additional info. I’m gonna recommend the Big Three, Ammo (attracts women-- at your age, you don’t produce as many natural pheromones, so get the 2x strength), Instant Shine (adds to your confidence levels) and Instant Oppenness (the icebreaker, gets people talking).
You start out by testing each product solo to learn your personal sweet spot of how many sprays best works for you-- start off with a single spray and after a week, add another spray and test those results. After you find your sweet spot, you can spray more than one product on yourself at a time (called layering) for even greater effect!
Read through the links in my signature as well as those in Tisha’s (she’s the Phero-Goddess who issues the GCs) and read through the sticky threads in the Men’s section for additional tips.
Tisha will be by to offer her own suggestions, and river’s advice is always grrrreat! (That’s Tony the Tiger for “The Question Master”) They will steer ya where ya need to go!
That helps immensely! Thanks!
Ok, here’s what I suggest. Since it seems a lot of your possible “hits” are “cold” ones, meaning out-of-the-blue, by-chance, no previous contact, no mutual friends kind of meetings, I think something that instantly puts women at ease would probably be a good thing (and, you’re pretty tall, too which could possibly lend itself to the intimidation factor of meeting a stranger).
Instant Female Magic can help you with that. It helps puts women at ease and helps them to relax a bit. Actually, it can also be somewhat of an attractant, even though it’s not marketed that way. Almost all women respond favorably to the pheromone that’s in this one.
Instant Openess is great for creating that “instant friend” kind of connection. Women like to feel “connected”. LOL! This one will help not only the woman, but also YOU to get conversing. It’s a chatty mix.
I also recommend Instant Shine which gives off a youthful, fun vibe and can actually make you seem younger. It’s very upbeat and is a great mood lifter, for you and those around you. Both Openess and Shine are really awesome for diminishing personal space which means that others will want to be closer to you, assuming your body language tells them it’s ok to do that. You may notice them leaning toward you or touching you more when talking w/ you.
And finally, I recommend Double Ammo for you. This is the same as regular Ammo, only double strength. The reason I suggest the double is that you probably need a little more than, say, a 21-year old. Why? Well, the older we get, the less attractant type pheros we produce for reasons you can figure out, I’m sure. Good 'ol Mother Nature, huh?
Anyways, this contains a female attractant pheromone but is buffered well enough with a couple other ingredients to make it appropriate for use anywhere, anytime.
Seems like a lot of products, I’m sure, but I think a combination of these, used for those times when you DO go out, could result in some very nice “hits”. All of them are also available in TOGO sizes if you want to give them a whirl before coughing up the money for a full-sized bottle.
When you get your goodies, be sure to experiment w/ them each seperately so that you know what kinds of results are typical from each product. On day 1, use one spray. Day two, use two sprays, and so on until you find your “sweet spot” which is the numbers of sprays needed that results in the best hits for you. (gotta experiment around other people though…won’t work the best if you’re at home alone 
)Everyone is different. THEN, you can apply them together in a combo to get the full effect and tweak it until you find what’s best for you.
Since most of these are cold meetings, also pay attention to your body and body language so that you don’t come across as threatening, or intimidating, or unapproachable in any way. Smile, dress nice, be confident in your walk and talk, and give the products a try. I think you’ll do just fine!
Good luck!
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
My name is Tisha and I am the hostess and pheroguide here on pherotalk.
River has given you some great suggestions so read up on
those products and your GC is on its way for when your ready to order.
If you need help of have question let me know.
Have fun
Tisha
Thank you river, Robbie and Tisha. I have a bit of study to do now. River and Robbie in particular, you have given me a nice starting point. Mtnjim, thanks for the welcome. Nice to see there are other older…er..‘mature’ men around this forum and around home. Maybe we’ll meet one of these days.
Maybe, I’m a professional computer geek.