Howdy luckinfurluv,
Welcome to the forum! Its a great place with very helpful bunch of people. The best place to start reading is the stickies for the newbies like
The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies by assassin
Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp by tailofday
lukinfurluv to qualify for a gift certificate from steve0 tell us if this is your first time experience with pheros or you have used them before, how did you find this forum?
You can try the To Go sizes of Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Ammo, Instant Female Magic. Once you have tested them and found out which ones work best with your chemistry and situations, you can order the full size bottles.
You can also report your observations and ask as many questions in the forums.