I am fed up of being cute!

Bro, if I hear the word scrumptious, my mind doesn’t exactly go naughy. LOL I think Tiramisu or Cheesecake… :stuck_out_tongue:

Its not the word in itself. It how you use the word.

See I can say something like… Man its hot out today I am so sweaty… and peoples mind usually go to stinky sticky uncomfortable.

Or I could say … Man its hot out today, I feel so moist… and the mind go’s in a totally different direction even though I said the same thing.

With scrumptious its the same.

Suppose a girl asks a guy “how do I look in this outfit ?”

He can say “Its looks good” and she will be mildly pleased.

or he can say “you look scrumptious” and she will be pleased and mildly aroused.

Its highly effective.

There is this girl I know at work who has a wild crush on the UPS guy that does the daily parcel drop at our office. She has been talking to him and trying to get his interest so he will make a move but he hasn’t yet.

She asked me what should I do. First I told her just ask him out but she just wont. OK so straight to the point is out of the question for her.

So I watched her approach him and ease dropped and the convo was normal. She mentioned he had a lot of parcels today and they talked about work and stuff like that and wished each other a good weekend. I could tell he is interested as well.

Monday came and there he was unloading the parcels.

So I told her to walk over, twist her hair around hair finger slightly, cock your hip, wait till he picks up a parcel and say "my, thats a big package you have there, need some help with it ? " Not parcel …Package.

She did it, He grinned like an idiot, immediately moved into her space, they chatted for a few minutes and he asked her out.

Thats the power of the trigger word used in the right context with body language.

Tisha

That was a cool story about the chic from your job. LOL
:stuck_out_tongue:

It made me laugh

Haha I agree, Tisha that post gave me a few chuckles.

More directed at OP, but why do people talk about being cute and being sexy as if they are mutually exclusive?

Cute is sexy.

I think cute is kool but it doesn’t really imply anything sexual. I mean my relatives call me cute or handsome all the time. Sexy clearly distinguishes you from the crowd. All the guys I know including me pay more attention to a females body then their cute looks. Just saying. :slight_smile:

There is nothing wrong with cute, cute is awesome, and sexy. If a guy tells you you are cute it may be because he doesn’t want to say something that may sound trashy. To me hot is kind of trashy sounding, and in my opinion should really only used by guys to describe a woman to other guys(or in certain other situations). I like gorgeous or elegant myself because it sounds classy, and beautiful is too much for a girl you don’t know. But what do I know I am just a nice guy, but in my opinion cute is a great thing ladies. Sexy also seems to me like it’s too much for someone you don’t know well, and imo could also be trashy.

What dwrestle said.

I have told a lady I ardently admire (ie. I think she’s incredible in every way) that she’s cute, because I feel “sexy” is too strong at this stage of our relationship, and “hot” is a little trashy. For me, “cute” means much more than it actually says. I think she knows this, as I have done other things to show my interest, like putting my arm round her shoulders briefly when we are walking together, and also around her waist for a bit. Just building up to asking out for dinner. But I’d still tell her she was “cute”, in addition to “you’re looking really beautiful tonight” and “that’s a nice perfume - you smell really nice”. But not “sexy”.

And ladies, am I correct in assuming that women prefer a man to show interest by his actions ( - continuing to ask her out), rather than any overt declaration of how much I like her?
Thanks!

I have always been CUTE myself. One year I went to few a plastic surgeon because I was OVER being cute. Time after time I was turned away… the Dr’s always said no I wont touch your face. Finlay a Dr. told me the reason I was “cute” was because of my nose! He said my nose never developed a bridge. Because my nose has the slope of a child’s nose I would always be… cute. 20+ years later it serves me well along with great genes. At 45 I still look like I did when I was 26 plus a few extra pounds. Now I am said to be alluring… I like that. Everyone should be so blessed.

As a guy, I need a woman that is sexy. I think women can be and act both, cute and sexy, but I’m not really 16, and I want a mature, classy, sophisticated woman next to me. The cute girls can go hang out with the losers with no style and class.

This is really where attitude is everything, and mones WILL help. For guys it’s very similar to wearing Alpha or Sexual products, where women think you’re the sexiest man alive. I was pretty much an Alpha male before mones, but with the right products, I’ve become a god. Women who are exposed think of me as the sexiest man alive, as opposed to just the cute guy. I think this is similar for women, although women can always dress sexy, or simply “act” sexier based on their walk, etc.

Just as all the guys are chasing Alpha mones in hopes of becoming the Alpha sex god, women can also use the right products to give them that touch of pure sexiness.

THE FIRST thing is to manage your appearance to be “SEXY”, then the attitude will follow.

Let’s be careful to word things in a non-hurtful way. Constructive comments are the most effective.

Trust me, those shy, cute girls are usually the best girls you can have :wink: I have a girlfriend who was not the best girl in high school, and she was really shy, but now she is the best woman that I can ever imagine. And looks? Well, have you ever taken off the glasses of an “ugly” girl? Trust me, with some changes in appearance and some help from friends, cute girls can turn into wild cats with a little bit of help and some pushing. My girlfriend looks like a hot teacher these days when she is wearing glasses…

And when those “cute” girls are next to you, the rest of those girls will envy her, so to keep the guy next to her she will try to do her best to keep him hooked :wink: I don’t need a goddess next to me, i need someone who knows how to make me (and herself) look good, has good table manners and loves me for who I am, not for what I look like.

I’ve never been called cute. But hot, sexy , attractive, smoking, classy are words I’ve frequently heard.
I wouldn’t mind having a little bit of cute in my appearance, it might calm the tension down a bit enough for me to make connections. ( connections, not leg humps) lol.