I agree, I think hair, skin and eye color don’t matter when it comes to beauty. I hate when people say that women have to be blonde and blue eyed to be attractive. Don’t they know that not every woman in the world is white? Beauty isn’t dependent on race. 
I think blondes and brunettes are both beautiful. It’s funny how we seem to desire what we don’t/can’t have instead of embracing them.
Well blonde hair is definitely not boring! When I was very young my family used to describe blonde people as having hair strands that are made of gold, porcelaine skin… you guys were described like angels or something. Seriously, lucky you.
I have jet black hair and dark skin and I hated it so much because I couldn’t go lighter like how lighter people could go darker. They could dye it darker, they could tan… sigh… they had so many options whereas I couldn’t. I have dark skin and strong ethnic features so light hair doesn’t fit me anyways. This made me envy blondes even more LOL
Don’t get me wrong, I still like myself though LOL I wouldn’t trade my ethnic features to be blonde. However, I find blonde hair people with eyes of any color very beautiful, seriously ladies embrace and enhance what you have cause someone else is probably envying you about what you hate about yourself.
I think you’re all beautiful! Matter of fact..why don’t you all come over to Happytappin’s place (sprays on TUTH & IH) and let’s talk about it 
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Be careful what you wish for. You might get it…
On what planet? I don’t travel to Planet Fade, which would be the only place that statement would hold good. That’s just a ‘bone’ to toss out at the fems. Blatantly untrue.
For those that choose to NOT read billboards, this was exactly my point.
And you would be surprised for how many IT IS. Some don’t consider those outside of their race capable of producing beauty. FACT.
And again, for those who choose to not read the implication that is billboard high: The FACT is that some people in every race don’t consider outside of their race to be beautiful.
Is that clear enough for everyone?
Why would she be hurt? SERIOUSLY that’s ridiculous. She’s a published, known author! A success at something she loves, blonde, blue eyed and cute?! HURT? Really? When she has everything the west tells you to be. What more does the blonde population want? The unilateral adoration of everybody? Not gonna happen. I’m allowed to have an opinion. One nobody says she thinks blonde and blue eyes is boring and people get HURT???!!! Poor babies! One person on the planet is not falling over themselves, fawning over your peroxide / sun kissedness and they get hurt. Boo f**kin hoo. I have no proof that those whining are blonde and they have no proof that I’m not. Again, pretty girls whining over one zit. And please, don’t quote me out of context. That was in a personal context; this is not. And as I’ve said previously tonight:
Show me a judgement that I made that everyone else didn’t make against Eva. I didn’t judge - I EXPRESSED AN OPINION - an unpopular one with the blondes natural and otherwise; but just see how you jumped on MY OPINION, judged me and try to beat it down?
The implication to clarify to those who choose to be offended or hurt ( HISS - STAIR - RICKLE) is that blonde and blue eyes has long in the west been the preference; automatic attention because of hair color - that is a fact and the psychological studies done over the last 5 decades data backs it up. I, PERSONALLY, after a life of looking at 8 out of 10 fems being blonde and blue eyed find it boring. I will not be intimidated into retracting ***my own personal opinion.
I disagree strongly but I’ll elaborate when I get home from work.
I am not harassing you and I am sorry if you feel that way.. I know you came from a culture that valued light features more then dark ones and that did a number on your self esteem.
Yes I am serious. Obviously you haven’t read her posts unless its a lack of empathy for what she was conveying to us. Dont just assume since she is a successful writer and has blond hair and blue eyes life should be just peachy for her. She has been through a lot. Dark haired people of the world dont have the commodity on low self esteem and pain.
That’s just your perception from how you see dark haired/eyed people. Its not ours. No one beat Eva down. Mick who has dark hair and dark eyes mentioned she didnt think she was that hot and thought of herself as hotter and the men stated there preference but no one said she was ugly or beat her down. She is a beautiful women. Show me where she was beaten down ? Show me where I jumped on your opinion and beat it down.
I am not judging you at all. I clearly stated I didnt think you meant it to hurt anyone. Your own perception of blonde’s and brunettes only allows you to see any statement made on that subject, that doesn’t support yours as judging you. No one argued that blonde’s dont get more attention. No one disagreed that its a preference in the west. Those are all popular perceptions but perception is not truth.
My post was about how your acting towards the feelings of a member here. Doesn’t matter what you look like or what color hair you have. I dont judge people on how they look. I have said it a million time ugly comes from within. It seemed you were judging boudicca because she is blond and blue eyed. You quoted her then said “stop being that pretty girl whining about one tiny zit under her hair” That was not a general statement. When you quote your directing your response at the person your quoting. You didnt state it was your personal opinion till after when you edited it.
No one asked you to retract anything or not have a opinion. However you can be sensitive to the members here in your opinion. Its OK for you to be bored by blond hair and blue eyes. Its not OK to be rude and before you claim I am being rude to you I will remind you I have not once judged you on how you look or mocked you as you have me in your quoted response to me. I have used no derogatory remarks like you have used in speaking of people with light features. The only one screaming boo fucking hoo is you. Your the only one turning this into a issue between blonde’s and brunettes. Its your prejudice not ours.
I am sorry if my opinion or your choice of wordage here upsets you but it has nothing to do with what you look like or your opinion.
Oh and I wanted to add that here in this forum your not “one nobody” your a somebody to us. Thats what makes this forum special.
Tisha
Have you tried changing your eyebrows? The curve of the eyebrow is SO important when it comes to the cute/sexy factor, and many women don’t know how much you really CAN manipulate it. If you have rounded bows you will look like a confused baby, which is ABSOLUTELY cute, and I think attracts many men, but it’s the edges that gives Eva the sexy-factor…
If you wan’t I kan describe some ways you can manipulate it, but it’s a lot of text if it’s not desired 
Erk… well I didn’t mean to create controversy 
My family finds blonde hair beautiful because it is very rare to have that color in our community. But they never bashed brunnettes, most of us are dark haired so why bother making a fuss out of ourselves? lol If we emphasized only our beauty and ignored others like red heads or blondes, I think they’d loose their self esteem and be crushed.
Being blonde is not a sin and it’s not a bad thing. I don’t know why people are making a fuss out of hair color, it depends on your features too. Some people like blondes others like brunettes and then some like both LOL
Some women look spectacular blonde and when they go dark they look gothic. Some brunnettes have beautiful brown hair and when they go blonde it doesn’t match their feature or skin tone and then they look somewhat odd.
In the end it’s a matter of preference in whether you like it or not. But I think it’s ridiculous to bash someone due to their hair color, what can they do? they were designed to be that way by mother nature.
I have not been on this forum as long as many persons here but June gives me about three years so that is a good amount of time to make a fair assessment.
Many women come to us to use pheromones and some even have their real pictures in the avatar talking about wanting to feel prettier, sexier or get more attention. From the looks of the avatar i’d be like no way, you look so good.
I see it all the time and pretty soon they do to some degree. We all have our insecurities, even me as this thread should clearly show but lets face it a paper cut is totally different from someone cutting your entire finger of. I am not saying this to make anyone’s pain ,insecurities or experiences seem smaller than the other. All very important, valuable and we take all into consideration and try to cater to your needs.
Boudicca however when she started posting was different. I sensed anger, frustration , a sense of feeling totally hopeless and pain literally dripping from her posts and I had no idea what to say to her.
Honestly Boudicca I have no idea what you are going through and wish we could assist and hope that just being an outlet where you can express yourself in some way is stepping stone. Sure, we can say love yourself, do this and that but it’s goes way beyond that for you. I feel the wounds are deep.
Tisha said it best when she said that beauty and ugly comes from within but with some much brainwashing we can’t see that and it’s hard to de program yourself from all that you have been taught to be beautiful and ugly from since you stepped out of the womb.
Just wanted to let you know that I will be praying for all that pain you have endured and still going through to be over.
Continue being strong.
I’ve heard it’s a pretty nice planet 
Alright I hate to pull out a link like this, but it helps my explanation.
The Six Girls You’ll Date in College - CollegeHumor Video
‘The one who likes to party’ / ‘the dumb hot one’
Sultry and overly sexual.
‘The one who goes to church’
She’s one of the ‘cute’ ones in the video. See how she turns into a firecracker in bed? This happens a LOT with girls, and it is an amazing combo.
I know which of the stereotypes in that video I’d prefer.
Why do you think there are so many fantasies about librarians? About repressed catholic schoolgirls? Why do you think the British men all went crazy for Princess Kate’s cute little sister in that nice little white dress?
What i’m trying to get at.. is you don’t have to look like a pornstar to be sexy. A lot of the time cute IS sexy. A lot of the time it’s that endearing innocent look that gets guys fired up. Like I said - never underestimate a man’s desire to corrupt and ruin.
I’m pretty sure Marilyn Monroe never complained about naturally looking cute rather than sultry - it didn’t seem to stop her being so sexy though. She used the attitude, body language, voice, choice of words..
Personally I’ve been with my partner for several years and she is absolutely in the ‘cute’ category. But it’s funny how just a sentence or brief act can turn a cutie into something darker.
Be yourself. Your attitude will make you.
From what I’ve read, mixed race people are the most beautiful and they aren’t blonde most of the time. I’m guessing that the studies you read only included white people. Studies that include all races show mixed people are most attractive. It’s the whole reason sexual reproduction evolved. More gene variation=healthier=beauty. Plus, most of the famous women considered most beautiful have dark hair. If blondes were actually everyone’s preference as you say, they wouldn’t be dying out right now.
Of course many people will prefer others within their own race, I think that’s natural, but beauty obviously exists within every race. Beauty is part of what attracts a mate and people of every race need to attract mates. If people don’t want to procreate outside their race, that’s fine, but objectively beauty exists in every race. You can’t go around saying other races only produce ugly people just because it isn’t your personal preference.
Please do. I’ve never been cute. One thing that the populace of 3 countries agree on.
Haha! I LOVED that video. Sooo funny. Thanks for share.
Blonde/blue eyed gal here…on this front no offense taken…no one has ever called me boring. If it’s her opinion that Blonde/blue eys is boring it’s just that, an opinion.
I think I’m going away now. 