Hi, Well I am new to the “forum world”… so bear with me. I was in a 10 year relationship that has produced beautiful kids, from a amazing woman that I am still in love with. Unfortunately, she does not feel the same about me. I am definitely at fault…I got a little too complacent and comfortable with what I expected would always be there. I failed to put the necessary in, to get the necessary out. I want more than anything to win her love back. I’ve heard about pheromones, but didn’t put that much thought into its effects. I am in dire straights, looking for any remedy that may bring her back around to realize why she fell in love with me. I hope I can gather some insight and advise in the world of pheromones…and find the right mixture to bring back what I took for granted. I know the error of my ways… I am not looking for a quick fix, just an opening to begin the rebuilding.
While pheromones can spice up and enhance a relationship they can not fix it on there own. Used in conjunction with other methods of rekindling your relationship they can help a little though.
I suggest a few products. They come in to-go size so you can check them out for a low cost.
TUTH to bring some of the sexy back. Use this layered with other products unless your in the bedroom.
Ishine to bring back a charismatic feeling of well being.
IH for deeper communication and a feeling of connection.
Test the Ishine and IH on there own to find your correct dosage.
Use TUTH to give a sexy strong masculine vibe. It can come on strong so buffering it with the other two products at a 3 to 1 ratio usually is the best bet.
So you would wear something like 1 spray of TUTH layered with 3 sprays of IH to make a intimate connection.
To increase everyday attraction I normally suggest AMMO and Ishine but since AMMO is out of stock for a while you can use 1 spray of TUTH layered with 3 sprays of Ishine.
You do not have to apply them right on top of each other. Usually applying TUTH to the upper chest or neck area with 1 spray on top of one of the others and then using the other 2 sprays to other areas is fine.
One other tip is to think back to how you both acted when you first met and the things you did back then and incorporate some of those in your relationship now if you can as well as some new fun things that let her know you appreciate and are interested still.
Well I am not sure what product to tell you to help with a fix for what is going on. One thing is that you are looking to pull it back together which is great and these phero’s will help.
One thing to note is that she does know you so if and when you do use these around her she may need to reset so to speak the new signals you are sending to her.
One product that may help a good bit is Instant Honesty it is great to open up greater talking, Ammo is also something to look into which is well rounded. TUTH will work great when things do get going with you guys again to rev up her engine for you.
Tisha is one of the gurus here and what she told you is dead on. These products are not magic - they will not do the work for you - but they can give you and edge and help you.
The product advice she gave you is also very good. I will not bother to repeat it but I will emphasize that you would want to go with the more social products like IH and IS and not jump into heavy sexual products with heavy 'none in the day to day rebuilding process. Heavy 'none in a situation where she is unhappy, dissappointed will most likely tick her off.
My “daily” combo (for the most part - I do shift it a little) over the last several months is IG, IS and IH. I think something like that might do well for you in this case also.
Try reading the thread in my signature block for married guys. It will give you some of this same advice but also talk strategies some.
Good luck - I hope you can pull your marriage back together.
Pheromones do influence, but they seldom mend broken relationships. They are the most powerful when initial impressions are forming, when people first meet. They also have effects on established relationships, but those are much slower and must overcome established models of the relationship.
When one person leaves a relationship it is not uncommon for the person left to blame themselves, and to search for ways to repair the breach. It is a painful time. Consider the possibility that what happened is not completely your fault. Also consider that appearing broken and compliant may not advance the desired goal of mending the relationship.
Really becoming whole is perhaps the best course. For 2 reasons. One, is because it probably gives the best chance of reestablishing the old relationship, assuming the former partner wants to do so. Two, if one has to move on that puts you in the best shape to do so. Someone strong and whole is, in the final analysis, the most desirable partner both for those who know him and those who don’t.
Unfortunately, one may be somewhat broken by the ending of a relationship. Healing should have a high priority.
Pheromones can actually help with the healing. There are products here that can promote socialization, and make you seem strong and able if you act congruently. But you need to decide if you want to go that way.
Thank you… I know there is no magic formula. I am hoping to create an atmosphere where she might be at ease and willing to let her guards down a bit. i don’t want to force or push anything. But anything that will influence comfort when we are around each other.
I look forward to putting the suggested combination of products together…to allow what ever positive results we can achieve.
