I don’t really know what this site is all about, is it specifically using pheromones? I might be interested idk what to do. There is a girl I like but I seem to be friend zone with her. We’re best friends actually, and she used to like me. I didn’t know this until she told me after she had a boyfriend and I waited for that to end and when it did she told me she didn’t feel anything anymore. She came to visit this past weekend and I realize how much I like her still.
I don’t exactly have game. I am pretty socially awkward really. So thats my story.
It seems once you are the friends zone, you may be stuck there. You can try using some of the social and sexual pheromones, but unless you also take the initiative towards her, likely she wont just jump on you. Maybe you can try them out with new people that dont know you? Ammo will help with the sexual vibe, and being socially awkward, you might want IS to help with good moods, and IO to help you open up and talk to people.
Friendzone situations are hell! There ain’t a lot to do about them until you are ready to take some drastic action for yourself either. Pheros can help but they are not the whole story - they must be used in conjunction with some major repositioning of how you relate to the woman and how you project your personalit and sexuality around her.
Have a read of this and give us some more info about yourself and your situation:
Friend zone sucks. I´ve been there, and I guess I will be there again. However, I tend to avoid it like the plague by learining if she has a boyfriend as soon as I can. Sorry, but can´t tell what to do to get out. I wish i could, but I can´t.
As Mobocaster already said, mones can help you being more attractive, but are not going to change who you are. They jus can steer the perception others have from you in another direction, but you have to keep the engine moving if you want to make any advances.
Anyway, as I guess you want to try everything you have at hand, take your time to go through all ths sticky threads at the mens´s section. It contains anough good information to get you started. The thread mobocaster mentions in his response is one of the best. Once you know what each product does, choose the ones that seem better for your situation and give mones a try. Maybe you are near and they will give you the push you need. If it does not work as you want, you at least can say you tried. And maybe you discover new things about you.
If i were you, i would go for AMMo and IS.
AMMO, for boosting your attractiveness and your self confidence.
IS, for the general feel good effect
If you don´t have good results with the girl you have in mind, maybe you get results with another. I know it sounds cliché, put there´s plenty of fish in the sea.
Ouch! Doesn’t sound fun to be in that situation… it really isn’t! You’ve gotten some excellent advice already and I can’t emphasis enough that YOU will need to up your value as ‘more’ than a friend in her eyes with your attitude and HOW you talk to her. Mones can back you up with that vibe, with, say, AMMO that has a sexy confident vibe. You will still need to ‘show’ that attitude.
You can get it done, but, you just have to recognize what position you’re in, in her mind, and work your attitude, sexy confidence, from there.
Hey all, thanks for the responses. I guess I have some reading to do. I am thinking it might be a lost cause but I always have that shred of hope for some weird reason haha.
So I agree with the thing where I need to increase my value in her eyes. How do I reposition myself and all that? Do I act cool and aloof? Not sure the things I should be doing. Also I don’t think I want to actively get it started as she is seeing someone else. Maybe more of a slow build in case she is single again.
I found the site by typing something related to my story in a search engine to try to find some advice.
I do some stupid stuff. We’re both kind of goofy so we are weird. We had a serious talk about something and we were just looking at each other in a car but I made a random silly face out of habit dunno what could have happened otherwise.
In the “game” department and repositioning and stuff I need all the help I can get.
I suggest against the “slow build in case she is single again”. That will only do two things to you.
Put you more into the friends zone. The more you hang around her, especially while she is dating, she will consider you even more as a good friend. You might want to keep your distance to avoid this.
Your own feelings. If you keep trying to stay close to her hoping she breaks up, and say she does, are you going to be able to go in for the rebound? Do you really see yourself trying?
I hate saying it, because I have been there.. I have waited for girls to get out of relationships, only to find out after they want me to be a friend. It hurts, but I have learned myself, that once I am in the friend zone, I am stuck there, and its gonna take something major for that to change.
So for the time being I should just keep my distance? Like no contact and all of that? I guess I need to work on me atm I don’t have a lot going on. I just want to impress her.
You can try using some of the social and 