Everyone always SAYS it about/for a friend-when its THEM
This one is for real.
I have a friend who got hit on 3X in one day by lesbian ladies.
She’s short English speaking Hispanic, with dimples- adorable, sunny character with lots of sass and “moxie”
We work at an international airport where we come in contact with hundreds and hundreds of people a day
All the pherenome discussion thus far has been about various levels of attraction- anything she can do phero-wise to reduce a specific, same gender attraction vibe??
Thats a tough one and I dont know the anwser but I am sure one or more of the forum members will.
Before I used mones (and after) I would occasionally get hit on by women. I think if you have a happy open personality and seem approuchable to people its bound to happen. I just say flattered but Im on the hetro team and I am not offended and usually become friends with the person. I even got hit on with my husband standing right next to me which he thought was the funniest thing in the world.
Your friend comes in contact with so many people everyday and she probably has a way about her that makes people comfortable. Is she bothered by these hits ? I think she should get something that will make more men hit on her and just take the hits from women as compliments.
Anything she tried that successfully altered her phero signature to make her less attractive to lesbians (not exactly the area I’m learning about, but hey) also has the chance of making her less attractive to men, since there seems to be a correlation between the brain activity of hetero men and lesbians when exposed to pheros. Make sure she’s aware of that before she tries anything.
She also might just go through and check little things about her appearance- lesbians generally try to hit on women who they think are gay, so possibly your friend is accidently doing something to make them take notice. Or she just might be really really hot.
Unless this really bothers her or something, why not just politely decline?
When I was in my 20s gay men used to hit on me all the time, more so than women. I’m not sure why as there’s not a gay bone in my body. It may have simply been easy access/opportunity as I performed in restaurants and bars with plenty of gay waiters. Never happens anymore. Maybe I’m not as cute or perhaps too much androstenone from NPA or TE. Oddly, women do hit on me regularly so something changed. I just can’t figure out what it is (besides being older & slightly wiser).
Well she’s really cute.
She was just amazed at so many hits in one day.
As I said, we’re in front of hundreds of people a day so the odds are good if you are attractive, you will attract attention from whoever
adorable, sunny character with lots of sass and “moxie”
