Shy, young men love the Instant Openness to Instant Shine combo.
Don’t use Turn Up The Heat daily. In fact, don’t use it when meeting new people at all, unless you’re meeting them in a sexual context (like a club or bar, where women go out on the prowl). It’s meant to Turn UP the heat, on SUBSEQUENT meetings with a women… second or third date, that kind of thing.
What you want to build with new women is attraction, comfort, and trust. Using androstenone is aggressively sexual, akin to walking around with your fly open and your penis out… too aggressive.
Instant Shine is great at introducing a physically attractive element that’s comfortable and fun.
If you don’t mind how it affects you, Instant Female Magic can really help women drop their guard, too.
Much to my surprise, I’ve had women vigorously initiate conversations with me using Instant Openness, Shine and Instant Female Magic. Sometimes one after the other. (with the first one, you get a social proof element that encourages other women to vie for your attention)
Now this is important: Even though women will sometimes initiate with you, push that out of your head. Don’t aim for that – that’s a weak position to come from. Men play the biological role of initiators, and if you’re not doing that, you’re going to be working against what you’re building with pheromones.
Bottom line: You need to get some game. If you don’t know where to start, start with The Mystery Method book or DVDs. (they have forums, too, but they tend to have the same basic questions asked over and over again – not nearly as good as the book)
The Mystery Method is what Neil Strauss’ book and upcoming movie “The Game” is based on. It’s light years beyond most of the dating or “pick up” material out there, and will move you light years beyond where you are now.
When you have some game, when you become a decent initiator (go on the “newbie mission”), A314 would also prove to be an invaluable tool in your arsenal. In terms of the Mystery Method, A314 helps you to display higher value. I wouldn’t recommend for you as you are now, though – shy people and A314 don’t mix, unless you want your space.
Right now, you want women to invade your space more than ever. That’s where iShine really shines.