Hi everyone, Im trying to get my ex back, she’s pregnant and I love her, I miss her and my child, even if he is unborn…
We have been together for 7 months and a half, and she is now pregnant so im gonna be a father.
When we found out she was pregnant she always wanted me at her side, but then, she started to act weird.
She moved on to a new job and met some guy. She started to act very uhmmm… cold. Even questions like “are you ok?” were annoying to her, then she wouldn’t want to see me, and so… Sorry, my english is bad.
I have to say that maybe i was always wanting to be at her side, everyday and most of the time. Then she broke up with me because she said she didn’t feel anything for me.
Now she is dating this guy and I want her back, I just started to put everything in order in my life, and im starting to excercise every morning (i lost some weight )
My personality? well, social relationships are not hard for me, I’m very talkative and caring, I consider myself thrustworthy and friendly, Im 24
Her personality, well, she is very outgoing, caring and very charming, She loves to hang out with her friends and so… She is very talkative too, but sometimes, she can get in the “i dont give a f**k” mood" she’s 20
I have 3 questions:
What product can I use to get her attention, be atractive to her again and get her in confort (or get her to feel something again like love)
How much should I use
If I buy them from Androtics, when will I get them? I mean how many days does it take? And, do they ship to Peru?
I need them as soon as possible and I need the best recommendations you can give and the best results too. Thanks in advance.
This is maybe the crux of the problem - very often, spending too much time with and being too considerate is exactly the thing that turns a woman-off.
So for now, you might be best to back right-off her, stop showing interest/attention and keep all communication (in person or by other media) to the absolute bare minimum.
Her dating a new guy is also another big problem - she could well be head-over-heels for him just now and not at all receptive to any phero signals and the pregnancy may be complicating matters in its own ways. I’d also hazard a guess that this new guy will find things very hard going around her time.
Typically, after a period of no or greatly reduced contact, a woman’s curiosity will get the better of her and she will start seeking-out your attention again.
The thing then is to give back what she gave you - remain polite of course but be distant and disinterested for a period. It may sound counterproductive but this often helps cause an emotional turnaround but if it does, you do need to be careful to avoid making the same mistakes all over again and for a long time, you need to be leaving her wanting more and more.
And if you hear nothing back after a while, then you will know that she has swung-over to the new guy completely and this wasn’t for you to begin with.
Pheros - at 20, its a difficult age. Broadly social/smart/sexy products that back-up the best aspects of your personality are usually the thing but if you want to promote a relationship again, more close/bonding mixes might be in order and for that, I would suggest something like a combination of Instant Honesty, Instant Shine and P74 as your base mix, with a sexual like TUTH or a more broad-based product like Ammo added-in when she is more in a position to respond to things.
I would say also that when and if you start wearing pheromones around her make sure to do as mobo says and back off a bit, not too much, but let her want you. Your instinct will probably tell you to jump right back in when she shows interest but don’t.
I’m not too experienced with products for fallout or gaining a woman’s favor, but I know some products can really get you in to her trust again for a short period of time.
IH comes to mind. If you can get a conversation going with her while wearing this you could probably find out exactly how she feels and what she wants.
TUTH is a good base for attraction when used properly or could be too aggressive or sexual.
Ammo is good for social attraction.
And remember, you have to play with the dosages and mixes yourself, one size doesn’t fit all. So you still need to find what works for you.
If you wanted some really good help I would ask you you and her’s nationality to determine which pheromones would she be most receptive to, but if that’s private I understand. No pressure to share.
She can probably handle a decent amount of androstenone but if you’re Peruvian too I’m not sure extra androstenone would be necessary.
You should be good to go with Ammo for attraction. Start with 1 spray, then 2. I wouldn’t go much higher. You can also try pairing it with IH for the extra bond.
Most importantly, go test it on women who are the same race and age as her first so you can get a general feel of it on those women before you hit her with a disastrous mix that makes her like you less. Also, try to keep your lifestyle and diet consistent throughout your testing.
Anytime you have questions feel free to ask or PM me.