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Hello everyone, I’m 27yo and I live in Glasgow, UK.

Let me tell you a little bit about me. I dated a guy for 6 years and we ended up with the most boring marriage in the history for 2 years. So, one day I decided to move on. I moved to another city and started a masters degree last year.

Since I was out of the dating market for so long I wasn’t sure I was ready for the challenge, but last January I met the hottest guy in school!

The first night everyone from class was out, we ended up kissing! :smiley:
I was super excited, but I though the kisses had something to do with the alcohol. When we saw again after coming back from holiday, we became really friendly, exchange numbers, texted each other… So, next time we went out, again as a group, I ended up in bed with him. Sex was amazing, and after that he was super nice to me. He made me believe, he had feelings for me. Unfortunatelly, things got weird when I told him I really liked him. We got into an argument, but I still ended up in bed with him again. Next time we saw each other, he said that all he wanted was sex.

I know he hangs out with other girls, and he’s a total player. Still, I want to be his special girl. I have read lots of posts in this forum and I think pheromones can be a solution to this.

So, my question is: am I in the right track? can pheromones make me stand out from the other girls and make him want me (not just physically)? What products should I use? I am totally new to this and I need all the help I can get.

I don’t think I need something to make him want to sleep with me. I know he likes me, and he thinks I’m very attractive (his friends told me). So, I can get in his bed without any help :stuck_out_tongue:

I need something that tells him: She’s not only attractive; she also likes you a lot and you should not let her go!!

Thanks for your help. I’m looking fwd to hear from all the experts! :smiley:

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Hello Glasgow girl and welcome to the forum!

Although pheromones help you to be perceived in a more positive light, they can not make somebody want a long term relationship with you no matter what pheromones you are wearing.

My advice would be to forget this guy as he obviously isnt interested in a LTR and try to attract other men with the help of some pheromones. By doing this you will be respecting yourself and your self esteem.

Please tell us more about your personality ie shy/outgoing? quiet/loud? dominant/submissive? The more information you give us the more we can accurately recommend you the correct pheromones for your circumatances and you will receive a $25 GC.

Mackie

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

if you want to bump up his attraction, you need to refrain from sleeping with him so easily. Make him really want you. Yes, they get annoyed if they can’t get what they want, especially if they’ve had it before, but they will respect you more and also want you more.

So its not physical attraction you want from him, but some respect and desire for you as a person. For that, you should use Instant Honesty. It adds depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable around you and trust you more. It is also great for creating and strengthening emotional bonds.

And, DON’T sleep with him anymore. If you are “easy” with him (even if its only with him) he may well assume you are that way with everyone, and that may be why he wants you “only for sex”.

By not sleeping with him, you make yourself of a higher value. Also, don’t tell him how you feel. For many guys, the thrill of the chase is important, and if they “catch” you before they’re quite ready, it can be a turn-off. Hopefully its not too late, but in the future, with him or any guy, ALWAYS wait until they share their affections first.

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Hi GlasgowGirl,

This the home of the World’s Largest Pheromone Community, and as usual Silly Kitty has once again offered great advise. Everything she has spoken is straight business, and is really for your good. I’ agree with her. And always encourage yourself, your future will get better.

respect,

MVKBugatti

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Hey thanks so much for all your answers! I really think I should move on and keep having fun as a single woman, but now I’m very curious about pheromones and I really want to try them.

I can tell you more about me so I can get more recomendations.

I’m very outgoing… usually the soul of the party. I’m not into fashion, but I’m very into looking sexy. I eat healthy and work-out 5 days a week. I have a strong personality, and most of the time I get what I want. I like challenges and I never quit.
I know this sounds very contradictory to what I described on my first post… but it is probably because I fall for people so easily! I believe some day I’m gonna find prince charming. I don’t really like this about me, so I try to keep my feelings hidden until I can trust people. I guess this time, I lowered my guard and that’s why I fell so badly for this guy.

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There are just two main rules you need to stick to, 1) Don’t share your feelings first, and 2) Don’t sleep with them until they do share their feelings with you. They will respect you more, and want you more. And they will treat you much better. Believe me< i know, I learned this the hard way, the way you’re doing now.

There are a few books that helped me, including “The Rules Book for Dating”, “Why Men Love Bitches”, and “He’s Just Not That Into You”. I wish I had found these books a long time ago, it would have saved me so much grief.

As for phero products, If Instant Sexiness/A was in stock, I would recommend that for you, because it will give a nice sexy aura to your confident personality.

Instant Honesty might help you, because it adds depth and intimacy to conversations, people will feel more comfortable with you and will tend to open up to you more. It is also great for creating and strengthening emotional bonds. Though you need to be a bit careful with it, because you may endup telling your secrets as well.

Instant Shine is a positive, uplifting mix that will boost both your mood and the moods of those around you. I like to give myself a spritz if I’m feeling a bit down, it works like a charm.

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yeah, definitely the dating rules changed a lot since last time I was available…

After reading lots of posts about pheromones I decided I need to try them! By any chance anyone know when Instant Sexiness is going to be available? I’m flying to the US in one month and I would like to buy it with the Instant Honesty and Instant Shine.

Also, how can I get the $25 GC?

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Actually, people have become more promiscuous and have begun placing less value on sex and self respect. These books advocate the more old-fashioned “rules” which are much more effective and mentally healthier.

Don’t know. You might want to ask them via the Smartmones store "contact us’ thingie.

Mickaelia should be along in the next day or so to issue it to you. :slight_smile:

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hey, I’m back… sorry I went on holidays and I had been trying to keep up with school stuff.

So, I don’t think smartmones is going to have Instant Sexiness soon, since I suscribe to the “Notify me when this product is available” and I haven’t received any emails from them. :-/

Is there something else that I can get that has a similar effect?

I’m going to the States just for a weekend in just a few weeks so I need to place my order asap!

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Welcome to Pherotalk Glasgow!

Thank you so much for PMing me about your gift certificate. This happens a few times when the introduction does not make it into my inbox and so I did not know it was there to go ahead and do it.

I do apologize and because you are so patient I went ahead and issued you a double gift certificate.

Have a fabulous day!