Ok, I am reading about pheromones the last 2 months and I think that I am ready to order. It looks like that my husband was not very happy with my weight and I did not gain a lot, anyway I just lost 26 lbs in 2 months and I want get him crazy, I already got some stuff that will help him to be in shape for the night I am looking for, he does not know.
I want to add more spice and then after reading the posts I would like to order Lust After Me + 20X cops or EOW, I would like to use Dolce Gabbana fragance oil to cover up the smells.
Hey everyboby, please let me know if this is the way to go. Any suggestions from anyone?
Hello Welcome to the forum
First off dont forget to go up to the intro section so you can get your $15 GC.
Congrats on your weight lose ![]()
I think Lam is a good product and with 20X the cops it should do the job but it will stink to high heaven and be very hard to cover so if you do get it get it with a different cover scent then the ylang ylang it comes with. I suggest chocolitini or grapefruit. Grapefruit is truely amazing I wished I had gotten this scent sooner. If you have your heart set on the Dolce Gabbana oil then get it in neroli. You can cover neroli with anything and it blends great.
EOW is something you should think about as well. You can spike your favorite scents with it and give them all a little kick which is what I do or wear it straight with cover for a special night.
I also suggest getting IH This gives a feeling of intimacy and closeness.
Tisha
Thanks Tisha23, I stopped nursing and I still have to work in the weight, I will get there, it is not a lot and I want to loose weight for me, I want to feel better.
But, you got a good point about the smells, it needs to be discret, I can not use anything that will have strong smells, because my husband does not like. I have a 19 y/o girl and he always complaint that she uses a lot perfume. I wonder what I can have that does not have strong smells.
I think he looks me different now, but he is still holding and I want make him to release his body and be less conservative.:o
When this happens I can not have my 5 y/o and my 18 months in the room.
I replied in your intro to so read that to…
Can you give me a example of what he dosnt like smell wise. Whats exactly to strong for him flowery scents, foody scents ???
This will help for choosing the scent covers for you. Like my husband hates musky scents but loves foody scents.
Your just starting out with pheromones dont go with the 20X cops just yet. We are going for enhancement here not overwheming, the over whelm comes later LOL
Think about how sexual attraction works… It builds, anticipation is important.
This is how I do it…
I have spiked all my regular scents with just a bit of EOW. This way I can use them daily no matter where I am and just get a sexy little kick, I am building. This also gets him accustomed to the new feelings he will be getting from the products. You want to ease him into your new signature at first not clock in the head with it.
Then when the time is right we clock him
LOL Use your high cop product or maybe some straight cops (eow) to push the arousal over the edge. All this time you were busy building that anticipation and arousal and then it pays off.
So my week of product use when I am not testing new stuff will look sort of like this…
I am 42 so I need more cops then the younger girls, just so you know it does make a difference because as we age we make less natural cops. Your dosage may differ depending on how much you make naturally.
So I will use Instant sexiness either in 5X cops or regular with a drop or two of straight EOW for a few days just to build his arousal. This is alot of vopd for some people. I can alternate the socials Instant Honesty Instant Openness Instant Shine according to my needs each day as well. Then when a night comes along when we dont have 100 kids hanging around I will put on 10 drops of EOW covered in Instant sexiness and maybe some Instant Honesty and go for the juggler. LOL sounds almost violent (snort)
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My point is (and this go’s for male users to) Arousal can occur suddenly but building anticipation can turn good sex into Phenomanal sex. I would rather do it a few times a week Phemomanally then everyday just good.
Also alot of married people or involved do this and I was guilty of it at first to. We tend to lean towards the sexual pheromones more cause hey we are going for more great sex right ![]()
You will be surprised as I was what pheromones can turn your husband on. Instant Openness can make my husband horny.. I cant tell you why maybe he feels closer to me I dont know. Instant Shine can get him going if the mood is right. It makes him feel happy upbeat and less drained after working all day and it allows those other feelings that get buried under everyday stress to come forward.
Just like losing weight its a process and it can be a load of fun journeying to the end result. I was very distressed at first when I started using cops. For one I wasnt using enough, (I wanted big results) I couldnt get my husband to respond and since I am a highly sexual creature (you will find that out from reading my posts) I was pissed. Every other man responded but him. Then I learned I needed more (thanks dolly)
and I started using this systme of build and conquer and it worked well. It takes some work with those closer to us. They take things for granted after a while and they know your natural pheromone sig but keep at it and suddenly its light a light go’s on and they begin to respond.
The fun is only just beginning ![]()
Tisha
Thanks Tisha. You are so right. I think sometimes I am thinking more about vengeance, since is behaving as a low drive and giving excuses using my weight, I am 5.5’ and 180 lbs and I think it is not that scary, my goal is to get to 140lbs.
I do not know what it is his favorites scents, he gave once the Romance perfum, I just think he does not like strong smells, but I can use my daughter strong scents as excuse and ask him what kind scent he thinks that works better for woman, that will be easy and I go from there to find the right scent.
I will order everything today, but I have a question about using the EOW drops, when you said "I will put on 10 drops of EOW covered in Instant sexiness and maybe some Instant Honesty ", how do you put the drops? To cover EOW do you just spray the IS and IH to the top? I am not sure if I should mix the drops in a small amount of IS or IH.
I think since EOW has eye dropper, I undrestand that I add it to something, right?
EOW comes with a built in dropper so when I wear it straight I justcarefully let the drops fall out on my application points or for hard to reach places let it drop on my finger and apply.
I then wait 15 stinky minutes for dry down. This is vital to good covering. Then I spray over it my other mones I am wearing that day. Then I let those dry down. (I am usually doing my makeup or hair during this time or getting ready for bed if its time for 10 drops) then I apply my cover scent if I plan to wear one.
Now for my perfumes and other fun smellies. I have alot of 10 to 15ML atomizors and small bottles which is what I like to work with. You can get them all over the net pretty cheep or at sephoria’s I bought a few droppers at the drug store those are like a buck each. I fill the small bottle up about 3/4 of the way and then add 1 dropper full of eow to it. This is for everyday use. You can also just put about 3 or 4 drops on and cover with your perfume if you dont want to go to the trouble of mixing them.
Remember your dosage may be different then mine so start a little lower and work up. Its easier to add mone then it is to subtract them or buffer them.
Tisha
PS dont add them to your other mones until you used to using those on there own. Use the drop and cover method for that. I am talking about your daily perfume scents.
I ordered all the ammunitions to start.:o)
I ordered EOW, Instant Sexiness, Instant Honesty and turn up the heat, I believe that I will have all until the end of this week, then I will start to try slowly.
I look forward to start and report my experiences.
Hey, when I say the word “ammunition” above, I was refering to a mone, I was refering to EOW, IS, IH and TUH, I was not aware that there is a mone with this name.
Welcome, Newlife!
You’re going to have lots of fun with your new pheromones. One question for you: what do you plan to do with your turn up the heat? It is almost all androstenone. Are you going to put it on your guy? That could work really well.
Best,
Kitten
I am planning to use on me, because I would like for him to be a bit more aggressive sexually. For what I am reading lately in some posts, turn up the heat will affect me also. I will start with just a little be.
My IS, IH and TUH arrived yesterday, Wednesday, I am still waiting for my EOW, I think it will be here until the end of this week.
I am having an unusual week, my husband and I did not have sex for a long time, I mean a looong time, then this week we had sex on Monday and on Tuesday, I was amazed since we got married this never happened.
I was very curious to try the mones, like in my previous posts, I want the mones to spice my sexual life, we already had sex twice this week, what it is a great progress for my husband, then I decided to try IS and TUH.
I took a shower and went downstairs to watch a movie with him, after the movie finish I went the bed, he was still downstairs doing some stuff, I sprayed IS once under my arms and behind my ears, I was not very sure how I want to use the TUH, then I sprayed once in my husband’s pillow ( I read in some post that someone did this), I was not sure if could work, since I think mones should be applied on the skin.
He came to the bedroom and his first comment was if my daughter was there, he was trying to be sarcastic, since he thinks my daughter uses a lot perfume, but I just told him that she was not and asked why, he said that it smelled a strong perfume. Well, I did not smell that much, I thought that IS does not smells strong. He came to the bed, hugged his pillow and starts to sniff, I asked again what it was going on and he said that was the smell, I asked if was bad and he did not think that it was, but a kind strong, I just told that probably was my shampoo. He turned back, I also just tried to sleep, I did not worry about the effect since I was just testing.
After while, I just turned my body on the bed, to get a better position and he hugged me, then between kisses and hugs, as you probably guessing, more sex, wow I am getting spoiled.
Anyway, what a great start and I was even expecting, but I need to know what to do about the smells, since It seemed that he did not like. I asked him to buy a perfume for me , his choice, I wonder if I can use to cover and if so, it will be even stronger.
Fun stuff and the number one reason I got interested in this stuff.I so want to have this effect on dear wife.
I think if try the pheromones as indicated you can have a lot fun, yesterday I put 3 sprays of Intant sexiness and 2 sprays of Instant Honesty, before I went to bed. My husband was more open for conversation and very affectionate.
I need to learn more reading the forum and with the others experience, I think that when I use pheromones, I need to have a good attitude and do not expect a lot, but to be open for the results. I think that the way I feel have influence in the people’s reaction.
I can tell that in the beggining I had the wrong attitude about using mones, nice that I changed before I got them. I believe that it works and I need to go slowly and watch what happens.
I need to report something that it is hapenning when I use mones, so far I am having awesome week, still waiting my EOW, the funny thing is that I ordered it before I ordered my other mones from SmartMones.com, what really shows that SmartMones has an excellent customer service.
As I understand I can use Instant Sexiness when I go out, but in less quantity, of course depending of the place I go, I can meet several people including children.
I am applying my mones before I go the bed, I have kids and it is very difficult to put them on the bed early, even if I do, they come several times to ask something until they fall sleep.
First time I tried Instant Sexiness, my daughter (18 months) woke up and I had put her back to bed, but she had a very strange reaction, she started to leak me, I felt very bad and angry, I think because it was so weird, I kind thought that I should not think that it was because of the mones, but I felt guilty anyway.
Since I started using the mones this week and I am trying every night, the same thing happened the next day, it makes me nervous. My son (6 y/o) also woke up, but did not have the same reaction, he wanted to be near me, what it always happens anyway.
My question is that if I use mones and go somewhere and somehow kids come around and I can not avoid, will they react because my mones? I am a mom and I do not want to hit kids.
I see a lot reports about people that use Instant Sexiness going to a meeting, grocery store, party, work, etc.