I have added this to my journal but just wanted to post it as a separate thread as well:
So I am in a long-term relationship and have been testing TUTH previously and now IJ .
Firstly I believe that having been with someone for a long time you can actually hold a higher dose of nones without the need to buffer.
For this reason I have been able to increase up to 4-5 sprays without a problem.
Now my significant other hasn’t had a great sex drive, its fine and not a problem, she just hasn’t seen sex as that important.
Now the effect of TUTH I have found to be a bit hit and miss. When getting in bed she has not always been interest. However when she has been she is definitely more in to it and aroused.
However with IJ , when getting in bed she is very receptive and often initiates by leaping on me. This is definitely different from TUTH in so much as this is more intense and physical. With TUTH it seems she wants to have sex, and enjoys the experience, with IJ she takes control of the experience.
TUTH = good sex some nights ![]()
IJ = blow job every night ![]()
In fact I have stayed up late tonight and gone none free as I want a rest from it all.
IJ is and will remain on the shopping list!