Before I say this, I want to tell you that I am not trying to brag lol I want to know if, in my circumstances, it would be wise to put them on (please read it all):
I am 18, in one of my classes, there are about 6 girls.
I notice the best looking ones (3 of them - 2 of them being the most attractive out of the 600 girls in the whole school who is in my year) looking at me about once every twice/three times when I look up from my work that is in front of me.
It’s crazy, whenever I look straight up, within 30 seconds, one of the 3 always deliberately stretches so she can show me “her assets”, and looks at me whenever I look near her direction. She’s in a relationship too and seems committed when she’s not in the classroom which is confusing (nevertheless, it frustrates me a bit that she doesn’t save the beauty of her eyesight for someone she has made a commitment with, I couldn’t ever disrespect a fellow male by trying to pursue her).
Listen to this, at the start of this class (2 months ago), my section of the class was FULL of guys. My whole table were full of guys (about 9 boys just bundled together, none of them know eachother). Then one by one, throughout these 2 months, they all moved to the other side of the room…all of them. The guys don’t really like me I can tell. One or two of them are cool, but one of them probably produces a lot of pheromones himself because he’s a class clown and we all love the dude, the other one who likes me is a very quiet guy.
And one of the girls who are attracted to me came and sat close to me. She has a boyfriend too! Whilst the others are pretty much directly in front of me.
Maybe it only has an effect on girls that I am attracted to? Because there is a girl who sits next to me who I don’t find attractive, and she seems very tempermental all the time with me and never responds when I make a general friendly comment.
There’s this one super hot girl that i swear 80-90% of the time when I look up, she looks at me for a while each time and when I look her in the eye, she just shudders and looks away.
In the school hall (where people eat their lunches at lunch time), I never go there because the place where I am is huge anyway, none of my friends hang there. But when I went there to get to the vending machines, it was crazy, they all turned heads towards me, wherever I look.
It’s like as if I have the pheromone effect already. Compared to last year, it is crazy. I had around 3-4 people looking at me in one day last year, now around 90% of the girls that walk past in my college (equivalent to High school in america), will constantly look.
i also heard the one who shows her ‘assets’ to me, talking to the girl she was sitting next to, telling her that I always look away whenever she stretches, and asked the other girl if she thinks I AM GAY?! lol Because I don’t wish to look at her flaunt it.
Please give me advice:
How do I deal with girls constantly looking at me, taking into account that I have a few spots and marks on my face, sometimes they can pop without me knowing, so I get VERY, VERY paranoid when they look at me.
Let me tell you how I naturally managed to get a dramatic change in impact:
I was at peace with myself, my soul and made myself believe that there is no one better looking in this world, than me. So I was myself, I didn’t tense my face (I was constantly doing this the year before and it made me look terrible)..
But the thing is, I always tense my face now whenever they are looking, because I get really insecure and paranoid and feel as if I have to justify the views they are getting from their eyesight. I haven’t been looked at like this by the opposite sex since I was…5 years old. Yes, 5!
I know that my attitude compared to last year has changed. I like to keep myself a mystery, so I give off a mysterious character. I get what I want from guys whenever I talk to them and persuade them of something. I haven’t asked girls. I am actually too shy to talk to girls. I can’t talk out loudly in class because I get too shy. I am even shy when even looked at by girls. I get nervous (I know it is a temporary thing which I can amazingly change, but right now, that is me, shy and nervous). I am not used to being looked at by girls really whatsoever. LAST YEAR, The only ones who would constantly look at me were the 5 most attractive ones (out of the 600 girls in college), and the rest would never talk or look at me really, just a quick glimpse at maximum…I was even told last year by two insecure girls that left the college because they failed, that I was ugly..i heard that so many times from them, but all of a sudden this year there is a huge twist due to the new attitude I chose to have (a body language attitude, I’m too nervous to talk to girls really, my mind is mentally saying ‘no don’t talk to girls until you go to uni and it is relevant’), and because the marks on my face have nearly all gone. I think my attitude has allowed me to produce many pheromones?
What would it be like if I put on the A314 in college?
What would it be like if I put the TUTH in college?
What would it be like if I put BOTH on, in college?
I think girls in committed relationships seem more responsive to my attractiveness which is strange (unless they are totally raptured in thoughts and/or actually FEELING the content they have with their boyfriends), do your experiences with pheromones show the same correlation?
