Hello,
Ive never tried anything, but anxious to get started.
I’m 38 live in Texas, and married for 13 years. What’s the best thing for me to get my wife
on fire about me. I know it sounds funny, but sex is great just want it to be more like before kids. What will make Her initiate it?
Thanks
Welcome. A number of us are lost here on this unusual planet. Good to have company.
Relationships do change with time. Going back may not be as realistic as going forward to something new. Pheromones are a possibility. They work differently on people who already have well-formed ideas of us, like a spouse. The effects are more subtle in these cases.
Tell us a bit about your personalities, and your current relationship. Is something prompting your sense of urgency? Experienced people can make some interesting suggestions, but those suggestions will be better informed if we have an idea of who you are.
Also, the icon in the corner of your post indicates you are female. Is that correct?
Oh no i’m totally a male. I even clicked male when I registered. If I go to options cI can change it hopefully. Our relationship is great, sex bout 3 times a week. I normally have to force the issue, that’s what i’m trying to adjust. Its a turn off for me and the end result is a not so great experience., for the both of us. Im am a confident male, but we are talking about a women that knows me for 17 yrs.
You might consider the product called IH. This one really helps people talk about things that are concerning them. If there is an underlying issue in your realtionship behind the symptoms you describe this may help to bring it to light, where it can possibly be resolved.
I’d suggest finding a time you’re both rested and relaxed, a weekend perhaps, when you have some time alone. You might try the IH then, and after a few minutes just bring up how you perceive things have changed and ask her if she has the same perception. Ask her if she knows why.
Sometimes IH can help open the floodgates. No guarantees that you will like what she will say though.
This approach, though potentially painful, bodes better for long-term success than successfully getting her hot and bothered for one night without identifying an underlying issue.
Welcome Lilman,
This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will.
I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie.
We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually.
It takes a great deal and I am back logged.
I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to
In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service.
Thank you for giving pheromones a chance.
Your gc was issued!