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I am new here…stumbled in, hope to learn something about this. I always wonder if pheremones work -outside of the ones our bodies produce that is.

I am a married man, to the same woman, for almost 20 years. We started out like rabbits, all the time, any time, wherever… and it continued for a lot of years… now, its scheduled, or very rare and I want something to step it up, make it unpredictable and back to the days of wilder, more passionate.

Looking forward to finding out all about this and what it does for others, as well as what it might do for me.

Thanks for allowing me free registration!

DoubleHee
North Carolina

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Sorry to here it, the mones my just be the ticket for you!

Tell me, and I´m going to be direct here, what’s holding you back in the bedroom?
This is important to check out which product would be best for you…

Who generally initiates the sex? you or your wife?
How much time do you spend doing stuff together? Hobbys? cooking? Walks? Conversations? TV does NOT count!

Got kids?

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Heya DoubleHee! Welcome to the most informative friendliest forum dealing with the science of pheromones!! There are a number of experts that can help you achieve your goals but they are going to require some more information from you before they would be able to help you. Information such as how you relate. Do you feel your wife respects you in general? What do you feel is the greatest impediment to the type of interaction you seek?

I know these questions likely seem creepy and intrusive, but the information can really help determine which types of pheromones would work best for you. For example, if for whatever reason you thought that respect might be an issue, you may want to look at products such as Instant Gentleman or A314. If you are having trouble with intimacy, deep connection, you may want to look at Instant Honesty, Instant Shine and/or Instant Openness. If you don’t know what the issue is exactly but your wife is hesitant to let her know what she is feeling, I/H, I/O would be a good way to go. If it’s just an issue of sexual attraction, Turn Up the Heat may be just what the Dr ordered.

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

To get that spark going again, you may wish to start with Instant Honesty. This will create more intimacy in your relationship, which most women need to feel sexually closer to their man. Once you two are more psychically connected again, Turn Up The Heat will definitely help get that physical part going again.

Hope this helps!

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Welcome DoubleHee!

Nice to see that you have been married for over 20 years! I have been married for 3 and am striving to be like you :slight_smile: Anyways, I can understand your concern about sexual relations! After me and my wife had children sex went waaaaaay down! No fun doing all of the work and getting no play!

I do not know about your relationship, or how you interact and the whatnot. I would recommend doing something romantic first off. Suprise her! Not just take her to dinner either. Be original, or at least do a throwback date, where you go where your first date was or something. Be a gentleman. All of that stuff. Have eveything planned in advance. Women eat that up. However, it will get you some that night/day or whatever. LOL

Also talk about it. I know it sounds stupid, but really communication is key. Especially when it comes to sex. You have to work for what you want. Women are just as sexual as men, they just need to be steered sometimes. :slight_smile:

Now as far a pheromones go, first off, you are talking about a wife of 20 years. She knows your distinct pheromone scent. When you add a pheromone to your body, she WILL notice. She may not say anything, or act different, but she will notice. It will take time for her to adjust to anything like A314 or IG. So keep that in consideration.

IO or IH would help in the communication department. Funny story-- my wife decided she was going to make our dog smell good. She had no idea what pheromones were at the time. She put IH all over the dog, because she liked the scent. Damn, she called me crying and all emotional did not know why. She was spilling her guts about so many feelings. It was great for our relationship in the end. So funny to me though.

TUTH would be my recommendation. However it is a timing thing. You would want to put it on when you are getting her in the mood. Do not overdo this stuff though or it will backfire! Start with one spray. The next time try 2 sprays. If you overdo, you will not get anything. I have been there on this one!

Also if you are wanting to really use pheromones outside of the bedroom do a search for Bosshank. In his signature, he has a few links to using pheromones and being married. It was a great place for me to start.

If you have any other questions feel free to ask!

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Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination :slight_smile:

While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934 I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway.

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