I wish I’d known more about the circumstances in which the study was performed. If that IS the case, I guess this whole poll was biased to begin with !
But unfortunately, I do think there is quite abit of truth to what she says. Of course, not as ‘intense’ as she states it ( i.e the sense there is only one glass slipper, winner takes all) but I do see some instances myself, where women tend to form more negative assumptions and prejudices against those of their same sex quicker than men do – on a much more personal level too.
And I won’t exclude myself here– I remember my whole entire life I was a tomgirl, raised by three brothers, all male friends, and grew up idolizing almost everything they did. It wasn’t until I got into my first serious relationship that suddenly the insecurities kicked in, almost all at once. The hot bikini clad video character started to make me shift uncomfortably. I wondered what girls would think of me if I told them that I never “shopped” in a department store. I didn’t carry purses, did my boyfriend notice that ? Does he notice that other girls have prettier haircuts ? Shiny glossy pink lips ? What about those voluptuous models on t.v.? Porn, which was amusing to watch and almost a widely accepted commodity to me as a tomgirl, became the most offensive and horrifying portrayal of gluttonous lust and female desecration I had ever seen. And I saw that it’s all too easy for things to turn ugly simply under the strain of competition.
Most of the time, I dress very girly but quite covered and I refrain from talking about sex, so I don’t come across as sexually competitive, more like a cheerful, happy girl.
It is kind of dumb for women to compete anyway because you show more of a high testosterone trait that is attractive in men but not so much in women.
I always got a little bit of jealousy or women perceiving me as a threat before I used mones because I am so uninhibited verbally. Bella is right some women can get this response over the Internet as well as in person. I find online though its usually the miscommunications that can occur in this type venue sometimes fueled by other members. Usually once they know me and my personality they come around though.
But I haven’t seen a increase in jealousy that I can contribute to the mones though. I would say over all my mone use has brought me closer to women then it has created jealousy or cattiness. Women felt more threatened before I used them but depending on which mones I am using they now interact with me more.
oddly enough,
i do infact see pheromone usage increase responses,
and sometimes the response is jealousy/insecurity.
i dont pretend to know whats on anyones mind either on the internet or in person,
but wearing pheromones does seem to bring out involuntary responses.
involuntary until they are aware of their own actions.
i also think you may wear a significant amount of social mones (ie instant shine),and that does bring the sisters together…
the intent for harmony is in your selections ,no?
have you ever worn instant sexiness with cops andnothing else
around other women and just noticed only the womens reactions?
i want to see a Tisha report on that
oooh can i request a new report?
we can call it Tisha’s sexxay tuesdays…
Well Lor I dont pretend to know whats on peoples minds either. Frankly I have enough on my own mind without having to worry about whats on everyones elses. When I have a problem or I am concerned with whats on someones mind I will flat out ask them. Its how I have always been.
I believe I have reported on that. Usually its mixed in my total report for a product.
All my Instant sexiness bottles and My Ishine and IH have 20 times the cops in them so women are exposed to copulins on me all the time. I frequantly just use Isexiness with nothing else and never see catty reactions. I have had women actually hit on me which I know I reported on. I notice more women I dont know approach me just to chat. One of the reasons I love mones is not for the sexual effects with my hubby but because they increase my social circle with both males and females.
I do use socials a lot but I dont use them all the time. Ishine which I love can take it out of me after a few days of use so I dont use it all the time. I dont like IO much. It smells like feet and people annoy me when I use it. IH I love, I find it to be more social then IO but on a more interesting connecting level.
I will see what I can do. Right now I am a bit shell shocked. I had a tough forum week. A lot more go’s on behind the scenes then people know. I am getting over the flu, My hubby came home yesterday and told me he got laid off. I am still numb by this news because even though the economy is bad this wasnt expected. My tuesday, at least this one is not feeling very sexy right now.
You might try adding some est to your mixes to see if it has an effect on the jealous behaviors. If you do try this, I’ll be interested in hearing the results.
I think we need a detailed report on this Lor, with pictures.
Tisha, I wish you the best in this difficult situation. Please take care to devote the time you need to yourself and your family. Times like you describe can be very emotionally draining. Remember that you have a lot of friends here on the forum.
im sorry ,Tisha.
it does sound like there is alot going on.
it certainly doesnt help to say
that lay-offs are happening to everybody
but i know that after something difficult has happened
and i have finally turned the corner
i feel sexxier than ever for having made it through.
i wish for you
that will remember having been through something real challenging
and making it through
and remember more who you are as a person,
and less what is going on around you. you know why.
oh yeah -
thank you for being the fun kind of person that i can actually request a Tisha-sexxay-tuesday day to !!!
when things are on a more even keel
we will have sexx-month
My good lady has had problems with her female colleague, let’s call her C( 2 girls running a team of 40 plus guys) who feels she has to compete all the time. She has actually had the boss’s girlfriend moved to another office and convinced two girls to resign due to her own jealousies ( God knows why, she is a petite, slim, good looking blonde). If my wife wore anything other than jeans and a baggy jumper to work, the next day, C would turn up in a low cut top, tight jeans and high heeled boots ( she is shorter and less well endowed than my wife. It was decided enough was enough with the bullying and my wife started wearing a work combo of MX135, MX300 and Shine with an occasional boost of IS/A whlst still maintaining her wardrobe of jeans and jumpers.
The first day of wearing this mix was followed the next day (minus 8 degrees celsius) by C turning up in a vest top, push up bra, tartan miniskirt, no tights and stilletoes! This pattern has been observed and is very repeatable, the situation is not eased by the fact that the boss and all his staff come to my wife for assistance (due to her competence and professionalism as much as any pheromone induced ‘attraction’) and actually ignore C as they walk by her desk.
yesterday at work this couple sat at the bar and the gal ordered a beer, but her guy needed help finding one he liked.
i thought she would burn a hole through me,
she wouldnt even sip her beer while i was there.
<– her face,only with eyebrows.
i kept waiting for her to smile,
and even when i smiled at her she wouldnt smile back.
her boy giggled.
so i found him a beer as fast as i could,
and tried to give them space.
its weird and it doesnt happen all the time,
but when it does happen, its unmistakeable.
Thanks for the support ((((((Lor, GW, ariadne)))))) Big Hugs. We will be ok. I told him maybe the goddess has something bigger planned for him. I Spent most the day sending out resumes for him. I already told him “I dont care if you dont like wearing scents, your wearing A314 and Ishine to the interviews” LOL
